if u are in a relationship, is it okay to talk to a girl that you are interested in and know that she is kind of interested too but also in a relationship. is it okay toe-mail each other, after i move? i want to be her friend but neither of us can deny that there is an attraction.
2006-12-10 14:26:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When there is attraction, it is not acceptable. People need to put boundaries around their relationship and not let others in. Once you start doing that, you are beginning to end your relationship, 'cause it's gonna fall apart.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-10 14:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all depends on how you handle it. There are always going to be people you might be attracted too but would you really persue it..maybe and maybe not. If you tell your significant other you are communicating w/this person then I believe its acceptable. I am married and let my husband know that I was chatting w/another man that I found to be very intelligent and alot of fun. Was I attracted..yes in away for his personality..would I go on that attraction...no..I liked him. He helped me out w/some issues and my husband was okay w/it but thats because I was upfront w/him and he trusts me. I have given him no reason not to trust me. So be upfront and dont over step the boundaries.
2006-12-10 22:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are involved with someone else, you should not start a correspondence with this other person. If you both know you are attracted to one another, you will need to cut off contact in order to preserve your current relationships.
After you and she both break up with your current partners, then you can get together.
2006-12-10 22:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by KM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to sneak around and lie to your partner and justify it by calling it an attraction then just do it.
You and the "other girl" deserve each other.
2006-12-10 22:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is kind of wrong because it is not fair to the lover. i wouldnt do it because in the back of your mind you want this person. and i think you should avoid any situation that is going to cause a problem in your relationship
2006-12-10 22:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think hard about whether you want to stay in your current relationship or get together with this other girl. that's the real question here.
2006-12-10 22:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by sally p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know when you hear that old saying and excuse, 'one thing led to another'. this is the first step to that. are you sure you wnat to go down that path. you will end your relationship, hers too. and chances are you will end up alone. think bout long and hard dude.
2006-12-10 22:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you relationships are marriage no. If not yes.
2006-12-10 22:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by BILL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there's three levels of cheating...verbal/mental, kissing/touching, and intercourse. Basically, its how you and your current girlfriend define cheating.
2006-12-10 23:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by gabrielbowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its wrong you dont love the one your with so you should leave her it isnt fair if you have feelens for someone else you dont truelly love her
2006-12-10 22:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by ashley l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋