yes, i want to sleep with him on the first date, but he is too shy
i've known him for very long
p.s. morals like sex on the first date is wrong are not welcomed
only advices that work plz
2006-12-10 14:18:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Want to know the best trick... Don't force him, or you'll be going solo. it's all fine to say he's too shy, when maybe he just doesn't want to... ESPECIALLY NOT on the first date.
What makes it okay for you to want to force him to sleep with you, but if the tables were turned you'd call him a creep and scream rape, if he were to force himself on you?
If you really gave a damn what-so-ever for this guy, you'd shut up and wait until the time REALLY IS RIGHT! So, go take a cold shower and get over yourself!
2006-12-10 15:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by Middlehitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try backing off the sex issue (he can always get that these days), and try showing some interest in what he is all about as a person? Let him be the man and quit being so pushy. Why not just be the person who he enjoys being with because you are always upbeat, friendly, funny, and glad to see him? He will eventually associate you with these attributes. The thing to avoid with a shy guy is being overbearing and not allowing him enough time to feel comfortable with you.
2006-12-10 22:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could get him drunk. Or if you want to stay away from being under the influence, try to tickle him gently, compliment him sweetly, cuddle him closely. If he doesnt end up going for any of that be agressive and just pounce. If he pushes you away then he may not be ready fir the big S E X! Good luck!
And as for the people saying that manipulation isn't cool and don't do anything to anyone that you would'nt want done to you ( dont listen to them). This guy has a mind of his own and if he doesnt want to do it he wont do it.
2006-12-10 22:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My issue isn't with your sexual morals, but with you having to use a "trick" to get him to have sex with you. Manipulation is very unkewl...don't do anything to someone that you wouldn't want done to you.
If you really feel the need to do it, then you be the aggressor...kiss him, climb in his lap, start to undress him...he'll get the picture and either go for it, or let you know he's not that kind of boy...
2006-12-10 22:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wear your hair up so he sees your neck, a low cut shirt, a short skirt. and a sweet scent of perfume on you and play a little touchy and ask him if he wants to go back to your place, tell him you want to be alone with him.. and tell him you wont take no for a answer sweet and softly.. if anything turn his head towards you softly and start making out with him.. and tell him you want him and you want him bad.. lots of luck..
2006-12-10 22:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whip those T*tties out and start slobbin that knob. It's not rocket science Einstein.
2006-12-10 22:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by DrRocco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm...
If you have sex on the first date he might get attatched more than you want him to.
So don't.
2006-12-10 22:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Buttload 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
undress and ask his opinion about your looks, make some moves....he might be shy but not blind.....ask him to take some pics of you.....(use ur imagination) so you have a reason to undress.......... use protection allways!!!
2006-12-10 22:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just jump on him and start to make things happen lmao
i think you should act like you do not wont to make things happen and see if he can tell and that is going to make him wont you
2006-12-10 22:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by sumer h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY GOD! Why cant they all be like you. Well, heres what worked on me: Take his hand and place it on your tit. Things take off from there, if he's interested (he will be).
2006-12-10 22:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by Steve-o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋