I am gonna be 17 in 11 days and I haven't had a boyfriend since I was 14. It seems so hard to find the right guy. In my mind, I want someone who's honest, shy, responsible, cares about their education and who they hurt, someone who will make me laugh and cares more of what's on the inside than on the outside, most importantly, someone who wants to take my virginity from me. the only people I know with those qualities are my ex, Justin who lives 70 miles from me, and I'm npt about to start a long distance relationship, and my best friend, Chris... I bet I'm gonna die single...
2006-12-10 14:02:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant someone who doesn't want to make me lose my virginity
2006-12-10 14:10:44 · update #1
So you're most important focus is losing your virginity? That may be your problem right there.
Knowing what you want is the first step in finding the right guy for yourself. The second step, being patient. So chin up! You'll find Mr. Right. And when you do, all the waiting will have been well worth it.
2006-12-10 14:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Fur and Fiction 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt even look at your pics cos you are way too young. At 16 you have the rest of your life tolive and love. Believe it or not I was 16 once and i do remember feeling left out when all my friends had girlfriends and i didnt, then i married the first girl who went out with me and had 23 years of a miserable marriage. Do you want that for yourself? I waiteduntil my kids grew up and then left 10 years ago and it took me a while as an older person, but i eventually found my soulmate 4 years ago. So if you can learn something, dont rush, take your time and enjoy your youth. My rating Low self esteem but you are a 10 to your parents and friends and some guy you havent even met yet OK
2016-03-13 05:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 17. You have plenty of time to find a guy. Who says you need one now? If anything, having a boyfriend at this point will only distract you from what really matters, that being your education and your potential career. Know this: YOU DON'T NEED A MAN. You just want one too much.
2006-12-10 14:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TRUST me... men are nothing but trouble anyway...
and when you are focused on having a man in your life, it rarely comes..
men like women who have goals and want to accomplish them...
this is what i think you should do.. focus on your studies, school, college and all that...
hang out with your friends, and the man will come, your gonna go to alot of parties and have alot of fun this year, don't make your focus be on what you don't have...
appreciate what you do...
when i was 16 i started dating a guy and made my life about him, and now i wish that i had spent more time with friends my senior year instead of spending all my time with him...
2006-12-10 14:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Pregnant with baby# 2!!! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your 17.... your not gonna die single. You have so much time ahead of you. Use your singleness to improve yourself, rather than just moping around wishing you had a boyfriend.
2006-12-10 14:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Albeee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose faith girl! You're lucky to have even had a boyfriend! I'm 17 going on 18 and I haven't even had one boyfriend yet, so don't give up! Someone special will come along soon enough. :)
2006-12-10 14:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by riku_fan_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey ur only 17 years old , there is plenty time to find that specail person. and not because some one processes those qualities ur lookin for means that they r the one, its just that u all are compatible.i suggest u wait until ur much older say 18 or 20 wen ur more mature and no exactly wat u want or wats best for you.and no i dont think your gonna be single forever. i think that there is some one out there for every one. its just that you have to wait until God sees fit to send u that person. ok good luck .
2006-12-10 14:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you poor thing. you must be suffering. all of 17 yo and no boyfriend.
i really dont know how you can go through life with such an enormous problem.
i bet the starving millions in africa and ethiopia dont have problems as big as yours.
i really dont know how they could handle it.
2006-12-10 14:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i feel ur pain..im in the same boat i bet it will happen 4 us..i livein ireland if u wanna meet up
2006-12-10 14:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by stewart_ryn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be patient - the right time will come
2006-12-10 14:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋