he jus came back from da navy and we were havin a dinner......i didnt even know about his ex....but then i saw dat he wuz talkin to a werid gurl and i thought dat she wuz jus a fren....but when his dinner wuz almost over he walked outside with da gurl and i went to da car to get my phone...then when i look to da left he wuz kissin her...muh heart stopped for a while cuz i thought he luved his other gurl fren....then when i saw dat i want to tell her but i dont know what she will say when she finds out....and other then dat after he kissed his ex he left da dinner and went to his other gurl house????should i tell her????????
2006-12-10 13:54:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no
2006-12-10 13:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Depends on what kind of kiss it was. Best to first ask him and then u can decide if u want to tell or not but anyway, as a girl, I'd like to know if I was being cheated on, I know u would too. Ask your brother what it was all about. Don't break up a relationship for the wrong reasons. But if u are 100% sure that it was more than a good night kiss, then tell tell away!!!
2006-12-10 13:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meddling will probably not help the situation. If she was your friend it is one thing (and you weren't your brother's sister) but you are your brothers sister. Most likely if you tell the present girlfriend about the ex, she'll fight with him, let it slip that you told her, dump him and he will of course, because human beings are soooo rational, blame you. She will likely find out regardless of you telling her. Best stay away from this as best you can.
2006-12-10 14:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by derkaiser93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should! It's better to hear those kinds of things from a friend than be humiliated and have to find out on your own. I'm sure she'll believe you and break up with that jerk in a heartbeat.
But when you tell her make sure it's just you and her because if other people hear it she'll just be embarresed.
2006-12-10 13:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Buttload 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should stop worrying about other peoples lives and open some schoolbooks and learn some spelling, grammar and get a basic education so when you grow up you can at least work at McDonalds.
2006-12-10 13:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's always best to myob (mind your own business) I don't like people talking about my actions behind my back....that's the way rumors get started and waaayyyyyy out of control!
2006-12-10 13:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by yakimaniacs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope that is your brothers business and let him deal with that, he is grown and if he keeps it up he will get caught on his own. If you tell he will be mad at you. Its a touchy situation because we as women should look out for one another but we also need to mind our own.
2006-12-10 14:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, oh come now, does everybody quite continuously write like "dat"? And in spite of what my clone reported, dark-skinned Black women do not "convey down" the Black race. it is a few racist crap-communicate good there. in accordance to a modern MSNBC information document, the teenager being pregnant value has decreased and that incorporates many Black women saving it up for marriage.
2016-10-14 10:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are just girlfriend/boyfriend, I would.
Oh! I didn't know you were talking about your REAL brother. I thought that you were talkin' hood -? (is that the right word?) talk or something. If it's your brother, NO! Talk to your brother!
2006-12-10 13:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by Nocine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
That was one trainwreck of a question.
Maybe if you don't "type allz da werdz in lyke dis", people could understand you.
2006-12-10 13:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by [we're all mad here] 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If it was like a kiss on the cheek then don't worry about it.On the other hand if it was on the lips and it was like a french kiss then you should tell her.
2006-12-10 13:57:44 · answer #11 · answered by osembob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋