So. There was a guy and i finally told him i liked him. But he very nicely rejected me. I mean ive never been smiling while i was being rejected. It was sweet. Things have not been easy for him. He just got out of his "first love" relationship and i understand that. it took my a year to even thinnk about dating again. But im scared that we miht never actually go out on a date. Should i just move on? I mean he is a great friend and things arent wierd at all.
2006-12-10 13:49:31 · 12 answers · asked by Niko 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who knows... but it doesn't mean Never. As mentioned, he's just out of a relatioship so, as you too know from your own experience that time and space is needed... He's just not ready commit to anyone just now, but the fact that you're there as a good friend, I'm sure means enough to him for the time being... If he does, later on want a relatioship with you, you will know... But do keep in mind, the two of you already have a better relationship as it is... A good friendship.
2006-12-10 14:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Middlehitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if it's not weird, then just keep being his friend. Sounds like an amazing guy who can truly let you down easy. However, don't torture yourself by sticking around this guy if you have feelings for him and it's making you even the least bit unhappy.
2006-12-10 21:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by wendy_the_pyro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is give this some time. Keep him as a friend and sometimes friends turn out to be very lasting relationships because you know eachother very well. Just try to be there for him as much as you can. he will come around.
2006-12-10 21:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by valerie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being friends, if its meant to be it will be. If its not at least youll still have a really great friend!!
Maybe if he sees that youre willing to stick through his hard time and be his friend, when hes ready you might be the one he wants to go out with. Good luck!
2006-12-10 21:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by PenguinsWife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's still your friend, then leave it that way and date others. Who knows, maybe he'll wake up and ask you out once he's over some of his pain. But don't just sit there and wait on him, that's no way to go about life.
2006-12-10 21:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick around as a supportive friend, and if he changes his mind over time, that's great. Just don't wait up for him.
2006-12-10 21:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs some more time to get over his "first love" relationship!
2006-12-10 21:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by mimi b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2006-12-10 21:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon move on, if hes not ready why wait. Theres plenty of fish in the sea
2006-12-10 21:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a great friend and things aren't weird after you told him how you feel about him, then that is good, just don't loose a good friend.
2006-12-10 21:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋