My mother treats me like I'm a disease and abuses me CONSTANLY. She never feeds me actual food and when I told someone once, she had me put into a mental ward and told them I was violent. I had to stay in this ward for almost two years until they let me go. She makes me feel like a total peice of sh*t and the only time I hear her voice is when she's calling me names like whore, or *****, telling me that I shouldn't have been born and that she wishes I were more like my brother or wasn't there at all, and how it wouldn't matter if I disappeared and never returned. Then there's school. Everyone makes noises like they are pucking when I enter a room. And everyone laughs and giggles at me. I only have one friend, and he's been avoiding me lately.
I can't tell, and worst off I'm bipolar and very depressed. It's getting worse every day and I need to know what to do.
Please don't tell my to tell the police b/c I'm not going back to that ******* mental ward.
2006-12-10 13:49:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Please don't tell me that I need to calm down and that I'm stretching the truth, I assure you that I'm not.
2006-12-10 13:50:21 · update #1
She even made me get my hair cut to my chin b/c that was something that I loved, (my hair)...
2006-12-10 13:51:00 · update #2
I have no family other than my mom and brother.
2006-12-10 13:54:55 · update #3
My mother is an RN and knows how to hurt me without leaving marks on me.
2006-12-10 13:55:37 · update #4
I became an Atheist after I prayed every night for him to help me to get out. And I prayed that I would get a nice family. He never even gave me a sign, so either there is no god, or he hates me.
I stopped beleiving when I was 8.
2006-12-10 14:10:12 · update #5
sweetheart, life is so tuff, and it makes it horrible when you don't have a parent that loves you, or even makes you feel whole. step back and make your own inner feeling. find something that takes you away, like a book, learn something that you will benifit from in the future. you also have to know you don't have to take the abuse any longer. there is a counselor at school, or church that can help you. find a foster home, there are some wonderful foster parents who love kids like you. you are here for a reason. God doesn't make mistakes. you are here to make good decisions and to lead a special person. one day there will be the answer why you have been tormented like you have. just know God doesn't give you no more than you can handle. sounds like you are an extrodinary person. YOU ARE MY HERO hold you head up high. the friend doesn't come around, then they weren't a friend to begin with take care one day at a time
2006-12-10 13:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I am really sorry to hear this. I think you need to talk to someone to get the depression away, tell a counselor or someone who you trust and someone who can actually listen and act. I think your mom sounds like she is the one who needs to go to the mental ward and I am sorry that your childhood had to be like this. At school, try to talk to some new people and make some new friends.
Again, I feel horrible that this is happening to you. I hope this answers you question.
2006-12-10 13:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Everything falls apart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh ... this sounds like a made for TV movie... and I hope it has a happy ending... you are under your moms control and I know if you go to get help she is bound to punish you... I wish I knew how old you are and that would help know your capapbilities in making an escape... I would pack my bags... go to social services office and tell them the same thing you told us... request foster care... refuse to go back... keep a clear mind and don't act crazy so theycan't say your doing this because of your bi-poplar disorder... I would take you in if I could... would love to try to make up to you the things that so called mother has done to you... wish you the best and good luck.
2006-12-10 15:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your school counselor asap, there is help available for you, a mental ward is not the answer, but counseling is, you need it to deal with your situation and find the tools to cope. Write Dr. Phil, Email him, he may be able to help you and hold your mother accountable. The only help with your school situation is to speak to the school counselor and get some advise how to deal with your fellow students and make friends. Please do not answer some weirdo on the Internet, there is real danger out there, be careful.
2006-12-10 15:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you need help right away but the best help you can get is to call out to Jesus. The bible says God is a father to the fatherless, and to cast your cares upon Him for He cares for you. If you have never tried, call upon the name of Jesus and I promise He will make Himself known to you because He loves you and created you with a purpose. The bible says you are fearfully and wonderfully made. It does not matter what others say as long as you know God loves you unconditionally. If you need a friend I will be here to talk. God bless you...
2006-12-10 14:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by steptoejosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie how old are you? How about your brother, will he let you live with him? Is there a counselor that you can talk to at school that will help you? If not then maybe you have a teen hotline in your area..They are designed to help teens in trouble...Please find help in your area and get out of there...I cant understand parents sometimes..Just find a teenhotline and get the help you need...God help you hun
2006-12-10 13:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by glowworm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok when you get to school u should tell ur guidence counsuler. otherwise u should stand up to ur mom and tell her that u dont deserve to be treated this way and to leave you alone. but trust me ur guidence counsuler will listen and ppl know that ur mom isnt always tellin the truth especially if u tell them all the stuff that she is doin
2006-12-10 14:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by ozzygirlisme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man! I know theirs problems in the world but parents shouldn't act this way. I bet she was treated the same way by her mother. As others have said you need to find someone who will listen to understand your story. They must understand you! Their is no other way. Adults protect other adults find someone that knows the difference.
2006-12-10 14:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by animatelifeforce 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok that shiit is outta control. you and your momma need professional help. call dr. phil or tell a trusted adult and get proof like pictures of your bruises after she beats you. and i thought i had issues with my mom...your life makes mine seem peachy...thanks and good luck. oh and don't commit suicide you'll go straight to hell
2006-12-10 13:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This book should be read by every teenage girl or even anyone who has ever felt lonely or misunderstood, it's amazing,
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2006-12-10 15:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋