o.k. here's my story I have a best guy friend who is 18 years old and I'm 32 he's other best friend tells me that this 18 year old is in love with me and want's me to have this 18 year olds child but the 18 year old has never told me this. We have kissed a coupel of times and we do love eacother as friends for we are best friends and i do have stronger feelings for him and every time i say if you hurt my husband you replace him he say's o.k. and when we go to get off the phone he say's I love you too me. I just don't know what to do. What do you think?
2006-12-10 13:47:47 · 13 answers · asked by outlawprincess5321 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o.k. more info my husband knows about the 18 yearold and knows we've kissed and dosen't care for he knows are marriage is not really a marriage for he's into his games and egnores me all the time and we are trying to work on our marriage but it takes time and my love for the 18 year old is as his best friend and no i will not have his child being married but feelings are confused
2006-12-10 14:12:13 · update #1
There's nothing wrong with that provided you aren't his teacher and you aren't married. If you don't mind being called a cradle robber or Mrs. Robinson. Even if you are called those things, it would be by other woman and know they are only jealous. You mention husband are you married? It really would not be a good thing to have an affair. If you are married and thinking about cheating; maybe you need to talk to your husband about the status of your marriage. Otherwise go for it, just raise him up right.
2006-12-10 13:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're married and have feelings for an 18 year old? That's considered a taboo in today's society. But who cares?!? I don't think it's wrong, as long as the love is real. Age is just a number, and look at Aston and Demi! They've lasted longer than a lot of younger couples. Just know that there are people on this planet who are so stubborn and traditional, and they will frown upon it. But then again: WHO CARES?
2006-12-10 13:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every 18 yr old boy fantasizes about a 30 something woman. Don't get caught up in it. Don't let him drag a 18 yr old kid drag a married woman into his fantasy.
2006-12-10 13:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you're a 32 y.o. woman and it's ridiculous for you to even ask a question like this. You're gonna have this kid's baby? Are you serious? Come on lady. If this is something you wanna do then do it. Don't ask advice like you're some 17 naive girl. You know it's dumb to do it though.
2006-12-10 13:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by DrRocco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your married? I think you need to deal with the cheating first, because you said you've kissed this 18-yr old before.
2006-12-10 13:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Everything falls apart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible for the two of you to be in love,but remember you are married and is that something you are willing to mess up for this other guy.Age is just a number of years the body has been on the planet...nothing more...The I love you could be one of two things...real love or just a salutation to show he cares...only suggestion would be talk to him and try to get definition of feelings then decide what to do...and remember everything happes for a reason!!!
2006-12-10 13:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by krazzyracer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell the 18year old how u feel about him. and as for his age difference honey age is only a number, your just as old as you feel. but if you both love each other go for it, wat i do think is wrong though is the fact that ur married, if u and your husband are still together then let the 18 years old no that there is no future, if u are not together go for it. i no exactly wat ur going tru becuse am in a similar situation. good luck
2006-12-10 13:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O_O nicely. NO NO NO. your TEN. You fool! of route you won't be able to thats only DISGUSTING. you do not understand what love is, and theres no way your going to get with them. get over your self. i'm no longer announcing to cant date, because yeah your ten you may. yet bypass for someone your own frigging age.
2016-11-25 19:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get divorced before he takes that statement as a request to off your spouse.
2006-12-10 13:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF YOU REALLY LUV HIM AS MUCH AS YOU SAYTHEN DUMP UR HUSBAND AND GO WITH THE 18 YEAR OLD BECAUSE IT DOESNT MATTER THE AGE AS LONG AS YALL REALLY LUV EACH OTHER GOOD LUCK
2006-12-10 14:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by magdaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋