Girls read this and tell me if you like me or not (no i'm not looking for online dates), advice is welcome

Question

General stuff:
I just turned 19, uni student, asian, not the really skinny type, a bit more beefed up than average, average looks, dark-red, brown, blackish hair, i play tennis, a bit of basket ball and soccer. I like nice cars and i dress either normally (t-shirt / polo w jeans/ shorts), very clean cut and formal, or like a gang member or yakuza (purple and white dragon pheonix shirt which looks like a whole tattoo, black pants, bandana, mafia hat and black jacket, black shoes is my fav style of this)

Deeper stuff:
My nice side: I strangely find romantic stuff alluring (ie my gf playing piano to me makes me feel warm and fuzzy, guitar works as well), i come up with weird romantic ideas for people who i just like, I hide my feelings at first but once the ice is broken, there's a lot of feelings vented up inside, a lot i want to talk about. My dark side: I'm a bit of a psycho, i have a slight fasination with the concept of death, i disagree with religion a lot,

there are times where i do things which i know are wrong but my own selfishness overrides all morals and feelings based on conscience as long as it's not something i begun (ie, someone scratches my car by speeding and doesnt apologize, i swear i WILL hunt you down and burn your house down, cut your head off and impale it onto a pole so the birds can peck your eyes out). I like nice cars, i like to drive fast, i like to blow things up because playing with fire is fun. I dont care if it's 3am in the morning, in fact i will yell out just for the sake of it. If you expect me to do something, i will do it (ie: old lady holds her bag close when i walk past, i will take it because you expect me to (have done it but gave it back)).

There's a lot more of me inside this body, both good and bad, but it takes a lot more to find out, this is just the shallow stuff

That do you think?

seems like i got a bit carried away...

when i get carried away i tend to exaggerate my darker self and desires more, its a habit because less of it actually comes into reality, mostly just what i want to do but usually something or other stops me. sry abt that

Answer 1

Well. The hardest part about this question is to answer whether or not I would like you, considering I have never met you. Realize that, while you have an opinion of yourself, others may see you differently. It's all about perspective, which makes finding a decent relationship-worthy person all the more difficult. I myself prefer very skinny guys, which is simply an irrelevent sexual attraction for me. I have never dated a guy for looks. You're athletic, which means you'd be looking for a girl who isn't going to tie you down with the type of "I want to go out NOW, so take me" argument. You reveal a lot about yourself by saying that you dress in a "gang member" style, and I hope you realize this. You emphasize there that you place a decent amount of effort into being the "rough and tough" type of guy. This is further proved later on when you allude to your doing what people expect you to do.

The obsession with speeding, revenge and all-about chaos is the part you'll have trouble finding a date with. It's juvinille, ecspecially to many girls in your age group. I am not suggesting, however, that you have no hope of finding a nice girlfriend just because you like it rough. You simply need to know what you are looking for, and by this I mean you need to look for someone who won't mind taking a risk or two. Find someone you have fun with, that you share interests with. But, while I also love nice cars, I did not realize I was interested in cars until I started dating the boy I am currently with now.

In the relationship world, you've just got to take a chance and hope you won't get burned in the process. That's all anyone can ask for. The best way to go about this is to be true to yourself and hope some nice young lady will see you for who you are...and they will love it. =] Good luck!

Answer 2

Physical description sounds nice. The "yakuza" bit is fun and kind of alluring.

I would tone down the whole "psycho" bit or at least reword it. I don't know, maybe younger women like that kind of thing? I am writing from a 30 something perspective, so take it with a grain of salt. Maybe say you have a temper like if someone scratches your car you want revenge, but leave out the part about hunting them down and chopping off their head. Also the part about stealing an old woman's bag because she clutched it to herself. That shows a self-centeredness and lack of empathy on your part. Instead of thinking from her perspective how alone and vulnerable she might feel, you simply want to hurt her. Not appealing. But the romantic stuff is good and you have a lot going on in your mind and don't sound the least bit boring. So you like your gf playing piano to you, what would you play for her? (I.e., do you have a nurturing side as well?)

Answer 3

if i read correctly, you said you have a g/f,who plays piano to you, so why are you asking us??? oh and a piece of advice, never, ever refer to yourself as a psycho who is facinated with death-psychos and death-sounds muderous i think

Answer 4

you are crazy. i would love to have you as a friend maybe a bf. i play piano too.lol : D

Answer 5

I think its a good description, and i'm sure it tells a lot about you.

Answer 6

hmmm, your very honest. thatz a good sign, girls like guys who express there feelings. its kind of cute...

Answer 7

sure?? but you're a little bit crazy.

Answer 8

A picture would really help!!!!!

Answer 9

sweet...i like ur dark side better...

Answer 10

i think i love you now :P