I just found out my guy best friend wants to be with me BUT my crush will be here next week & asked me out to lunch to catch up(he lives 1&1/2 hrs away and will be here for xmas & wants to catch up with me) I'm really close to my guy best friend...he's awesome and would be a good b/f but then my crush is in the back of my mind...what if things could work between us? (me & my crush have history) I really think my crush is everything ive ever wanted...ive never felt this way bout any guy before but he doesnt live here, but im crazy for him and am hoping he will want to try make it work too...but if it doesnt work then i could be passing up the best opportunity with my best friend...who should i choose?
2006-12-10 13:38:48 · 6 answers · asked by hello hello! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Regardless of what advice you recieve, you will choose the crush. The "friend zone" guy never wins, because in your mind they will always be there for you, but you can't stand the idea that if you take the safe route, you could be passing up on this amazing relationship. And you're not going to do that, because in the end, females want the adventure over the safety net.
2006-12-10 13:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should teel your best guy friend exactly how you feel that you like him but at the same time want to be with you crush. You should explain that you want your friendship to last and that maybe later after you see how everything works out with your crush (if yall break up) yall could try a relationship.
2006-12-10 13:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I accept as true with the different answerers that mentioned clarify your concern on your terrific chum, in the event that they actually look when you they'll choose you to get weigh down out of your equipment or you will consistently ask your self what could have been.
2016-10-18 02:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by goodgion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best guy friend (he's gay) and I spend a LOT of time together, so he wouldn't mind if I skipped this one. Of course, that would probably require telling him who my crush is. If any of my friends found out, they'd hang me for treason. So I guess I'd pick the best friend.
2006-12-10 14:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pick your best friend because he's always by your side and it seems like he likes you for who you are since he is your best friend and seems to know you pretty well.
2006-12-10 13:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sarahie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BestFriend.
2006-12-10 13:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋