we were going together for 7 months..then we broke up..now we are just friend but i am still in love w/ him..Help!!
2006-12-10 13:28:13 · 7 answers · asked by anna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why did you break up?
That is the biggest question. The next questions you need to answer for all of us is; Did he cheat on you? Did you cheat on him? Did he break up because he figured out that he liked you more than loved you?
It's hard to be around somebody that you still love, but can't be with that person. If he wasn't faithful to you, I wouldn't give him a second chance because if he did it once, he will do it again. If he figured out that he liked you more than loved you, than accept that you have a good friend, who would help you if you needed it, but forget ever having him as a boyfriend again. Sometimes having a friend is better than having a boyfriend.
Good luck and let me know if you need more help.
2006-12-10 13:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by Joel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definitely experiencing a norm reaction so dont worry. U're in love with ur ex simple bcoz one reason= u really do love him. Esp u are a gal.. gals tend to be more emtional than guys.. and more sentimental too! Just need sometime to get over him.. unless he did something wrong which u two are impossible to be together if not, suggest that your shld talk things out if possible, start a fresh... since u really loves him. Dont miss this fate
2006-12-10 21:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not too sure, what happened was with your relationship but you have choosen a right track by being his friend. As for your feeling with him, it is natural and nothing wrong with it, you just need to move on your present and future. If he is designated for you, he will be yours. If not, someone better for you is waiting for you. He just cleared your path for your to meet the right man.
2006-12-10 21:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Suparto Jaya kusuma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he's over you, or just keeping you at arms length. to get over him you need to replace him.. its normal to still have feelings for someone whom you loved, but you need to transfer them somewhere, or someone else. there must have been a reason for the split up anyways, so move on so you'll be happy and then you will continue to grow
2006-12-10 21:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not seeing anyone then you should tell him.Friends and relationships only work on honesty.For all you knoe he still loves you too
2006-12-10 21:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's O.K. You will get over it in time... You spend a lot of time together... of course you still love them...
2006-12-10 21:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel....sh$t happens....you can't change the past, but you sure can change the future...THIS IS THE MOMENT OF TRUTH...flow your heart, and tell him the truth.
2006-12-10 21:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋