Hey all...Its a question for both guys n girls...
When a guy is with his girl and they go out and do watever and the guy starts looking at other chicks up and down like checking them out, is that wrong or? does the girl have a reason to be upset...cos my friend has been coming to me with this continious problem and she's worried that his losing interest in her and thats why she thinks his checking out other girls...i mean they love each other alot and are great together but this bothers her and she's confronted him about it and his like so what if i do that kinda thing...she tells me shes not jealous but just that it hurts her alot, and she doesnt understand why his with her if he insist on looking at other girls....
2006-12-10 13:22:27 · 13 answers · asked by *LuckyStar* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay number one its going to happen either way about it.. he may love her and stuff.. but him looking at other girls is going to happen one way or another
lets say for example... my parents...( married couple) dad still looks at other women.. doesnt mean hes going to break up with my mom or anything just means he finds other people attractive as well as my mom...
my mom still looks at other then( but just because she finds someone attractive doesnt mean shes going to break up with my dad)
Love is loving someone for who they are not what they look like, if he was to break up with her for that reason even though guys arent mature.. until there ... like 25ish... now thats not exactly true.. some men are mature. but she shouldnt be worried.. its normal.. so... try and tell her to accept it.. I know for a fact.. my boyfriend at the moment.. looks at other women.. but... u know what... I think other guys are attractive too.. but the thing is..
I love my boyfriend. Im not about to break up with him because I think some guy is hot, who I may or may not know or like. There would have to be a good cause because of it. and since that is the case I dont worry about him doing it either. so.. I wouldnt stress out over it too much.. All men are different though..
Anyhow I hope I helped:D
2006-12-10 13:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex of mine always did that, it drove me nuts. He would go so far as to flirt with girls in front of me. I finally had to get rid of him, I hated how it made me feel when he checked out other girls. My current bf is much better and keeps his eyes in check when we are out together.
I think some guys just have a tendency to look, if it really bothers her, tell her to find someone new. Unfortunately, I think the looking part doesn't change with time.
2006-12-10 13:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems a little immature and he should definitely be more repectful in her presence. I think it's natural to find other people attractive but there is definitely a way to act when you're with your significant other. She needs to tell him how she feels and I can promise you he would be mad if she was checking guys in front of him.
2006-12-10 13:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand where both sides are coming from. Its not fun to watch your "man" checking out other women, but you also got to remember, as long as he is going home with you, you shouldn't really care who he looks at. I know that is easier said than done, but come on.......all men and most woman are always going to look.......Best of luck to your friend and to you.
2006-12-10 13:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by confused angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with a guy checking out another lady as long as he keeps his hands to himself. But he should definitely NOT be doing it in her presence. Thats not only rude, but also disrespectful.
2006-12-10 13:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It goes like this if your single u can look and touch when ur dateing just look and married cant do s hit if that dosent help tell ur friend to try doin something fun that excited him but not going to far if u get what i mean
2006-12-10 13:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't say it's wrong to check out another grlbut don do it fron of her... ur date has a reason to b upset @ u... ... man i donno wat i would do if my bf did that....
she luvs u soo much.. she's jus scared that she will looose u... i noe u luv her too.. but come on.. don check out other grl while ur w/ her... u hav to let her noe that u r vary interested in her by bein w/ her.. n only lookin at her.... she like u to stare at her.. she wants u to check her out.. not others'.,,, so,, take my advice on this... n check out ur gf when sh'e w/ u... n if she catches u starin at other grls she might even dump u... good luck w/ that...
2006-12-10 13:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by ifaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not man trouble, this is BOY trouble
a man would not do something like that
real men have respect for their woman
2006-12-10 13:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-10 13:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell them
2006-12-10 13:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋