ok my friend wants me to break up with my boyfriend!
i've sent him e-mails and IM's and he wasen't replying!
then his lil bro told me hes grounded so that's why he hasen't been replying. My friend thinks i should break up with him...but for what?! he hasen't done anything...hes told me he loves me and hes the sweetest person EVER! I don't want to break up! and now everytime i bring him up shes like "you mean you haven't broke up with him yet?...you need to ASAP!" The main reason is because she wants me to get with this guy that likes me, and goes to the same school(my bf doesn't go to my school) but i think of the guy more as a friend hes been in my class and classes for five years and were more of the friend type! ...I'm not going to break up with my boyfriend!...but what do you think i should do?
2006-12-10 13:20:13 · 14 answers · asked by nikki<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey if youve got a great guy... Do Not give that up! they are hard to find. and as far as your friend goes unless she knows somthing that she isnt telling you about your boyfriend then tell her to shove it. she should be trying to break up a happy relationship, its not really her place to try to push you like that. why dont you break up with her!
2006-12-10 13:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by ricecakes7 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Think You Should Stay With Your Boyfriend Because You Don't Want To Break Up With Him For A Relationship That You Don't Know Is Going To Work Out!! But If Your Boyfriend Dumps You, Or You Guys Don't Work Out, You Always Have Another Option!
2006-12-10 13:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by ILY♥!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is your friend trying to be, your Mother? She is not acting like a real friend. She is actually crossing over your boundaries by trying to take over your love life. Before I got rid of my bf, I would dump her. Why do you think you need to live your life for such a person? Don't your own feelings matter? As for your bf, it seems strange that he is not replying to your messages. If he can go to school or outside, most likely he can find a way to contact you. He probably sent his little brother to you for a reason. Perhaps to see if you know what he has been up to. Did he tell his brother to tell you that he still cares for you or something that shows how sorry he is to not be in contact? If he did not I would be suspicious. Did he tell you when he WOULD be available? If not, chances are he is trying to play you. Could it be that your friend is interested in him? That won't be the first time that has happened. Whatever happens, do not let your friend dictate any aspect of your life. Take care and evaluate your next move.
2006-12-10 13:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by PZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that your find is jealous of the relationship you and your boyfriend have. Either because she is losing your attention to him, or she hasn't had similar luck finding a good boyfriend. Either way, if she was your friend-she's be asking you to tell her about your feelings, and listening (for support) Not telling you what to do and think. Friends don't offer instructions, they may make suggestions once in a while, but they never pass judgment on what you decide.You should probably re-evaluate her role in your life, and decide if she's truly your friend. Maybe she is. If so, explain to her that she doesn't make your decisions, and she needs to realize that and step back or find another "friend" to manage.
2006-12-10 13:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by MiMi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in spite of your boyfriends' unhappy undertaking, you have misplaced interest in him and function chanced on somebody else. in case you're in college, relationships come and pass. you won't be in a position to take them as heavily as marriage. yet dumping the boyfriend mutually as he's down is recommend. Cool your ardor for the hot guy, and a minimum of be available as a stable chum on your boyfriend. (you do not could desire to tell him "we are pals now", I recommend basically be there for him and help him.) while your boyfriend's issues have lessened, you may attempt to get with the different guy, if he remains available. If not, it quite is a shame to have ignored out, besides the undeniable fact that that's greater effective to act decently on your modern guy than to offload him in a hurry while he has kinfolk issues.
2016-10-14 10:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you honestly planning on letting your friend run your life? What you need to do is what you feel is right, not what you're friend is telling is right. It's your life, not hers, and if she's really your friend she'll understand that you need to make your own decisions. If you let your friends choose what you do with your life, then you will never really find out who you are, only what people around you think you ought to be.
If the guy's sweet and you still really like him, then keep going out with him. Asking him what's going on face-to-face will get you a lot farther than letting little-miss-bossy rule your life. Tell him how you feel and then tell your friend to get her own life.
2006-12-10 13:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by bibliophile_1976 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and select the bf you want. Don't be told by others what you want or need when it comes to love or relationships. You have to e the one to make the choice and live with it.
2006-12-10 13:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by ilyushin76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with your boyfriend then you should know the answer to your question. You don't fix something that isn't broken! If your friend is a real friend she will understand that and back off. Good luck!
2006-12-10 13:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by Cindy J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to what u just told urself u said u werent going to, i wouldnt id stay with my bf
2006-12-10 13:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by sweetthing2526 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your own life and make your own choices.
2006-12-10 13:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋