I've been wondering this for some time now, so I'll go ahead and ask it: Do guys really like girls who play hard to get more than they like the ones who are eager? Is it really a turn-off for a guy if a girl is too ready to go out with him? If this is true, that might explain why I haven't ever had a boyfriend... -_- Anyways, a little help? Thanks in advance! ^.^
2006-12-10 13:19:55 · 18 answers · asked by riku_fan_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is middle ground. you don't have to participate in the dishonesty of "hard to get" but you dont' have to be "eager" either. If you like him, it's okay to like him...playing hard to get is a game and a waste of time...being eager comes across almost as needy or loose...if a guy lets you know he's interested,it's okay to let him know that you are interested in return...then see what happens from there...
...if he loses interest if you don't play hard to get, he's not worth your time anyway...same goes in reverse for guys playing hard to get with girls...
this life is too short to waste is playing mind games with people...
2006-12-10 13:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think some guys do find "hard to get" girls more attractive. The only problem is, the "hard to get" are usually just really not interested in the person they are "playing" with. And some people, (both sexes) only want what they can't have. Don't worry, you will have a boyfriend - just be yourself.
2006-12-10 13:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! It is such a turn-off to me. I just want to be loved, and I don't want to have to play mind games with a girl to be loved. Now, I'm not saying that you should be all over the dude and give him the impression that you're desperate, because a lot of guys hate that (it makes you look psycho sometimes). But I know if I have to struggle to get enough attention from a girl, it makes me much less interested in her. It just isn't a good feeling. Good night!
2006-12-10 13:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a yes and no deal it really depends on the guy and the way you play hard to get if your too hard to get then its a big turn off but a little is ok as long as he knows you are willing you are just fooling around then its sexy
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2016-05-15 23:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it drives me crazy when a girl plays hard to get, in the bad way....
in one way it makes me think about the girl all the time and how i wish i could just be done with all of the thinking about **** non-stop about what to do to make them want to be with me, sometimes its to much troubble and i give up.
so theres good and bad if you want the guy to think about you them maybe have some slight hints of being hard to get just dont be a tease and let him know where he stands so he wouldnt give up.
2006-12-10 13:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by cade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls that play hard are annoying to me, I don't know about other guys. But so are girls that go willingly. Go somewhere in the middle and you'll do alright.
2006-12-10 13:23:34 · answer #7 · answered by T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
too much of something is as bad as too much of nothing. there needs to be an agreed level of elasticity here. do not appear as though you are not interested at all, but at the same time do not appear as though you are all too eager to go out. oh well, we need guy's point of view here...
2006-12-10 13:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they do. Especially if the girl is particularly attractive. Pretty girls rule the world - the rest of ust just clean up what's left behind them - don't you watch the telly or read the mags?
If you're pretty and play hard to get more guys want you. Save your pennies for the plastic surgery then you can play the game.
It's a sad materialistic world we live in, isn't it?
2006-12-10 13:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by shimmy 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
a real man respects a woman who doesn't give in to quick. a woman should always remember to let a man wonder let him think what he's missing if you tell or give to much in the beginning he's not interested. girl that something to remember
2006-12-10 13:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋