I knew this boy ever since I was about 6 yrs old and our parents know each other. By the time as I got into the 8th grade he started liking me but I never gave him a chance. I would tell him "I can't because I see you as just a friend." But even though I told him no, he would still be there for me. The day came when I had to move away from home and eventually he found someone, but our friendship was still strong. Even though he was in a relationship with someone else, he still had feelings for me. I'm in the 12th grade now and he is out of school. I talked to him last night and unexpectedly, he starts to express his feelings for me. He told me he wants to be with me and he loves me. I told him long distance relationships do not work but he is willing to wait.....and to top it off...my mom likes him!!!
2006-12-10 13:19:13 · 12 answers · asked by mimi b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
true love can wait!!! give him a chance to prove to you how much he really loves you and maybe when you finally see how much he cares for you, you might love him too!
2006-12-10 13:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever been in a long-distance relationship.. or are you just using that old cliche? I was in an 800+ mile relationship for five years and I married the girl. So there is hope.
2006-12-10 13:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, I think you have one of the best guys right there waiting for you. One, don't keep him waiting. He's not going to wait forever, he's waited long enough. And you never once gave it a chance. I think it's time to be together. As for your mom, umm... I got nothing to say. That's just weird. But go get that boy! Jeez, what are you waiting for. He's one in a million, dear!
2006-12-10 13:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r right about one thing long distance relationship suck like hell
i guess if his willing to wait to u get out of highschool i say collage
or to u can move in to your own house or apartment or something than but i wouldn't want a long relationship at the age of 21
2006-12-10 13:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by alex b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that's potentially problematic. now first off do you like back? cuz if not then im afarid you're gonna have to hurt him just a little bit. if u do like him then go for it girl. long distance doesn't usually work b/c the guys aren't trustworthy not to cheat, but if he's waited this long u have no worries
2006-12-10 13:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats cool but long distance relashionships can be hard.... you can do whatever but make sure if you go out with him eventually he broke up with the girl hes with now or that would be kinda mean lol
2006-12-10 13:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by So_Cal_5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you havn't actually said your feelings for him...are you just starting to reconsider cos he shows you complete devotion and worships the ground you walk on or do you actually like him? just cos he seems perfect (as you parents like him etc) it doesn't neccessarily mean he is right for you. really think about it.
2006-12-10 13:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by alabama w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him go for it you never know he could be the one.
2006-12-10 13:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
atleast there is someone thats chasin u...when that stops...u'll wonder why u dint give in
2006-12-10 13:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool
2006-12-10 13:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋