my siberain husky had pups last monday and my soon to be husbands brother in law is pissed at me because i will not give them a free puppy. i tryed to ttell him that i have to sell them all so i can pay some bills off but because he is family he swares by rights i should give him one. i told them when she was pregenant that we might give them one depending and now he swares i am supose to give them one for free. now he is starting crap with my man and trying to say he will make him leave his house and take our male husky out of there because of all this over a puppy. does he have a right to be trippin like this or am i in the wrong for this? please tell me
2006-12-10 13:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by Brooklyn Mae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ok my soon to be husband even feels the way i do brian(my husband to be)told them when the pups where born that we wouldnt be able to give him one and now he is starting this with me. i never told them they could have one for sure they already have a dog and they cant take care of the one they have. they dont have the money to feed this one if id give it to them or do they have the room for it they dont know the first thing about huskies and we have 2 of them so i mean i want them to go to a good home. this is not a good home hed beat it and all i wont have that. they dont have the money to pay even a little for the puppy they just want one for free and then he will beat it or not take care of it they cant feed the one they have. they dont have a kennel for a new puppy or ne thing and plus all of there children are allergic to dogs.
2006-12-10 13:27:19 · update #1
another thing this guy is into serious drugs and i told him there are people that are wanting these pups for $400 a piece and i have 7 of them i never told them they would get one i said me and brian would think about it and if we could spare some money or a pup id give it to the kids this guy is always doing this he did the same kind of crap to brians brother and to there sister which is the bro in laws wife.
2006-12-10 13:32:00 · update #2
Your fiance's brother-in-law is a little psycho; I guess now you will find out how your fiance handles this. The brother-in-law won't change; can your future husband protect you from this craziness and give you a peaceful home? How does the rest of the family act, and how does he handle them?
2006-12-10 13:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him a puppy... it isn't worth the fight. He may never get over it. Be the bigger person. You will feel better, you will always have bills. Seriously, I mean this in the most friendly and understanding way. He has put you in an awful position. Don't let a puppy get in between your husband and his brother. He will always blame you. Ok? Good luck!
2006-12-10 21:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I think you have a right to be a bit miffed over this, but you shouldn't let it get to you. Your soon-to-be brother in law is way out of line threatening you with manipulating his brother. How does this make your fiancee feel? I'd be angry with anyone trying to use me like that to get something they want. Future bro in law's behavior is tacky, but sadly, it's up to you to be the bigger person.
2006-12-10 21:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely taking this too far and he might even have behavioral problems.
Anyway, i would suggest giving him the puppy just to keep peace within the family, and maybe find some other way to pay off the bills...
2006-12-10 21:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by sweateredpanda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, I'm confused, who lives with who. Keep the puppy and tell your man to tell his brother-in-law to sit down, shut up and mind his own business. His brother-in-law is going to make your man leave his house? I would ask him who died and left him lord of the manor. Tell him to grow up and get a life.
2006-12-10 21:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a bit like a jerk to me. It is, after all, your dog, not his, so he seems out of line to me. It is your decision to do what you want with the puppies.
Besides, you are a woman, and he should know that women have the right to change their minds.
2006-12-10 21:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not stupid OR wrong. Tell him that you might give him a discount since he is soon to be family, but that is it. Why do I feel like we don't have the whole story?
2006-12-10 21:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by milofelttip 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you told him you would give him one when she was pregnant, you should stick to your word. It sounds like this could make or break your relationship with your fiance' and family is more important. Keep your word and next time, don't open your mouth.
2006-12-10 21:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have the right to change your mind at any time. You do not have to give anyone a free puppy.
He also has the right to make you leave his house.
It is not about who is right and who is wrong. You both have the right to do as you please.
2006-12-10 21:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's in the wrong cuz U got bills to pay. He should understand that.
2006-12-10 21:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋