My girlfrend expects me to pay for everything when we go on dates and we make the same money.
2006-12-10 12:56:28 · 8 answers · asked by Mississippi River 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's no hard and fast rule. my boyfriend pays all the time and will not ever accept any suggestion of going Dutch from me. could it be that she's been 'trained' to wait for you to pay? :) if you tell her how you feel, she might understand. i hate the undercurrents of things like this. tell her straight. i am sure she would want you to be honest.
2006-12-10 12:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've already proved you're a gents purchase paying two times, tonight if she provides, you need to assert 'no, it really is advantageous i am going to pay' then maximum probable she will be in a position to grant back, it really is once you're saying 'ok, we are going to bypass halves' or some thing alongside those lines. do not enable her pay for each little thing, if she buys the beverages you pay for the meal. Do you get the point? if so, then you'll nonetheless look like a gents, yet even extra of one for accepting her grant and appreciating it -make confident to assert thanks, even if you probably did pay for 0.5. such quite some the reason why yet i visit't be afflicted explaining.
2016-11-25 19:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before we got married, when we go out we use to give and take. it's not necessary he pays everything. even when we are married now he will pays mostly but at the same time i'll also still have my fare share at times. this will varies from individual and not everyone will be the same.
2006-12-10 13:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my boyfriend pay an equal amount. sometimes he pays, if he takes me out, sometimes i pay when i take him out
2006-12-10 12:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i pay alot, but not because he makes me, i just like doing it.
2006-12-10 13:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by ricecakes7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i will help. i did have an ex wouln't ever take money from me.
2006-12-10 13:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by intelligent80000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once in a while...It's cool.
2006-12-10 15:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by steemshovel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlfriends don't pay.
2006-12-10 12:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by true-mysteryfrom chinese wish 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋