I want to be on the pill because I've had sex and I want to "safe". How can I ask her to buy them for me? And I think I'm pregnant? How can I tell her this! I'm goin to get a pregnacy test sometime this week to make sure I am or I am not! How can I do this without her bitting my head off???
2006-12-10 12:50:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Find out if you are pregnant first and then ask her about the pill. If you think you are mature enough to have sex then you should have no problem asking your mom. If you are going to have sex,it is right to be responsible.
Your mom will probably get upset - there is no denying that. But she should understand that you are wanting to be responsbile. How are you? I mean would you be able to ask your dr for the pill on your own?
Anyways good luck!
2006-12-10 12:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy an ept pregnancy test its more acurate.And if you're not go to a health clinic to get the pill since the info is secret.But if you decide to tell your mom let your mom know you have had sex or you're thinking about it and that you did use a condom and will again if you have sex again.Keep in mind the pill wont stop you from getting an STD so use condoms no matter what the boy tells you.Dont fall for that a pill will stop you from catching something bull crap nor him saying he's clean and dont have anything or that you're the only one he's been with.Guys will tell you anything to get in your pants.Please dont fall for them telling you they love you either cause its only a trick.Listen to the song by Life Ginings cause its true.
2006-12-10 21:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by Miss.Strawberry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to buy a pregnancy test because if you're pregnant it's too late for pills. Second, depending on what state you live in, you can go to the health department or Planned Parenthood to get birth control without your mom's consent. But as a parent of a daughter, I highly recommend you don't do this behind your mother's back! If you are mature enough to have sex you should be mature enough to be honest with your mother no matter how she reacts.
2006-12-10 20:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by morenadancer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, find out if you are pregnant. If you're not its going to be a lot easier of a conversation. Just tell her that you are sexually active and want to be safe. As a mom I bought all my boys condoms before they ever had sex, I didn't want any accidents or diseases. Moms want the best for their kids, believe me, and you coming to her will mean a lot to her and she will help you. Don't be surprised if you get a lecture though, we moms also feel we need to do that, even if its telling you things you already know. If you're pregnant, make sure you have her alone to talk to her, somewhere private and it would help if she was in a good mood. She may get upset, but remember, in the long run, she'll want what is best for you. No one will ever love you as much as your mom.
2006-12-10 20:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by Hillaryforpresident 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie even if you are on the pill you need to be using condoms. It is too much of a risk not to.
And don't talk to her until you know for sure if you are pregnant or not. If you are pregnant you may wish to have your school counsellor help you tell your mom, or maybe a counsellor from Planned Parenthood
2006-12-10 20:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you wait until you find out for sure? Then you can say "I have had sex and I want to be safe will you please get me on the pill?" Or if you are pregnant then you would just have to say "I had sex and I wasn't careful and now I am pregnant." It will be easier for you if you are not pregnant but if you are then you need to get prenatal care and whatnot. Good luck
2006-12-10 20:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your pregnant it's to late for the pill, by a lot. There is no way to tell her you pregnant without consequences, which include a lot of yelling and biting you head off. She thought she raised a daughter smarter than that. Just sit both your parents down and tell them that you are in trouble and need their help.
2006-12-10 20:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They should have some few clinics around your area i know they do mine and you just go in there and put your name down and they give you a pregnnacy test and send u on your merry way with your pills...i've never had to tell my mom before....so you might wanna check into it...its family planning place...so just find one in your yellow pages call them and go...and that way tehres no confusing with your mom unless your pregnant...goodluck
2006-12-10 20:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want the pill go to your local planned parenthood: http://plannedparenthood.org/findCenterProcess.asp . Learn more here:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/birth-control-pregnancy/birth-control-4211.htm
They will help you pay or give it to you for free!
If you are pregnant also go to planned parenthood they can give you a free pregnancy test and if you are pregnant they can walk you through all of you options(adoption, abortion and keeping the child)
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-10 21:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by mommysforever.org 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be having sex at 16. go buy the pregancy test yourself and if you arent pregnant you are lucky. trust me i had my first kid at 18, should have waited. i was in love we were going to stay together and blah blah. needless to say there is no guarantee someone is going to stick by your side, but more or less what happens if you get aids or something you cant get rid of
2006-12-10 20:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by mumof4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋