We split up 8 mths ago, as we never made each other happy, however throughout these months he's been trying to get back with me declaring his love, making promises, I know he'll have no intentions in keeping. In the meanwhile he'll be telling lies about me to my mother, and recently one of my sisters, making them feel sorry for him and talking ill about me. After our split I had no choice but to move back home, but his vindictive motives is making home life very difficult. He acts like a schzoid as he's nice one moment and completely mean the next. I'm on an emotional rollercoaster and if I had a choice would have nothing to do with him, but I could never deny him of his child and will always give my baby the oppourtunity to know his father. It's hard because this is all very heartaching and mentally draining. If he can turn my mother against me what else is he capable of? I told him today i'll never get back with him, amongst other things he stated " i'm a darkhorse" I'm worried?!
2006-12-10 12:42:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
to return to him in these conditions it will be the biggest mistake in your life so you either may try to convince him or to force him to go to a doctor to show you both your problems and try to solve it or you threat him that you will never return to him and you have to guarantee that he will be good with you after that by any way you can discover it as for your mother you have to let her trust you and know that you are the victim not him this will be a thing that may force him to go with you to a doctor.
NB you know its very good of you that you dont have the intension to prevent your child from his father but be carefull that he may use this thing against you so try to let your child know that you are a good person
2006-12-10 13:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't be in a position to make a sweeping generalization like that .what's incorrect in a needy father asking money from his son?the place else you think of the father could have long gone?To me you appear to be the two unaware of social responsibilities of a son in an Indian society or a egocentric guy or woman.How can an oversea holiday ever grow to be greater significant than the purposes of one's discern?international extensive,Indian mothers and fathers are seen to be greater effective if not the terrific.examine it out and then come decrease back lower back.Sorry to selection.
2016-10-14 10:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to be strong and move on. as long as he is good to your son let that relationship remain. as for your relationship with him - its over. all you really need to do as far as hes concerned is make sure hes taking care of his son and talk to him about whatever may concern your child. limit your contact with him. avoid him. dont let him bother you
2006-12-10 12:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should allow a schzoid to have contact with your child. Take your kid and run, run, run...
2006-12-10 12:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't need to be around your baby or you.
I wouldn't want him around baby or not.
Think of your baby and what's best for him, stop thinking all about you for once.
2006-12-10 13:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of family do u have ?
first of all u should file for a divorce and custody of your child
because he needs psychiatric help
2006-12-10 12:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You unfortunately picked a mean-spirited man to be the father of your child. He will never change his behavoir and do not expect he will! Please move on.
2006-12-10 12:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋