we have this new girl new coworker, so f-u-king hot..... she flirt with another guy (who is married), why not she flirt with me? i am single.(she know that, and she single too) does girl fell safe fliriting with attached men?
what i should do that she flirt me.. when she go on coffee break she ask the other guys but never me? i am so jealious.. i am plannign to quite job..i fell so humilated...
2006-12-10 12:41:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, perhaps she is flirting, perhaps she is not... perhaps you are just perceiving her as flirting...
But say that she is... well, possibly, she does feel safe doing so with attached men... perhaps she doesn't even notice it... & don't tell her! It's possible she does this as she has found that it works in her favour (again, she may not even be conscious of it)...
Rather than get angry or upset, observe what is happening, see it for what it is... the way life is... the way people interrelate is some thing that is funny... actually, it only gets funny when you develop the power of observation that makes you a 'people person'...
I think you probably usually ignore people's behaviour (on many levels) as it usually doesn't matter (to you)... now you're waking up....
Don't get upset about this... so what if she ignores you? Maybe she likes you... maybe she doesn't... either way, accept her & her behaviour... but do observe what happens...
Thousands & thousands of stupid little f*cking dramas play out every day... thousands of wonderful dramas too...
Only you can figure out which one you are observing, concentrate on developing that power of observation...
Again, don't worry if she thinks she is taking people for a ride, nor if she does... don't worry if she gets taken for a ride...
Perhaps she doesn't, perhaps she won't, perhaps she doesn't want to, perhaps she won't be...
It's out of your control (& getting upset or quitting just makes you an example of a 'stupid little f*cking drama' & I am sure that you don't want that...)... what you can control is your power to read the moment, read what's going on on the stage around you....
& laugh when you see people playing 'silly f*ckers'... give it a year, the only people who really lose out, you'll find, are fools & f*ckwits...
A fool can recover... a f*ckwit rarely does...
K (antiparanoid)
2006-12-10 12:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by K V 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its all in the chemistry. Its the same as why some people can find a life partner so easily and others find it so hard to even find a girl/boy friend. Don't take too hard. Perhaps your Miss Right has not showed up yet. Its not worth pushing a relationship when the other party is unwilling.
2006-12-10 12:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's in lots of cases responded 2 approaches: scientifically and socially. Scientifically, frequently, woman are consistently finding for somebody (certainly a guy) to help create offspring and look after their survival with the aid of the survival of their toddlers. women persons are guranteed survival in the event that they get pregnant because of the fact it fairly is girls people who carry the newborn. adult adult males, on the different hand at the instant are not so guranteed because of the fact they might under no circumstances get a women people pregnant. Ergo, women persons are extra selective in whom they have intercourse with because of the fact they don't could complication approximately if the newborn is theirs in comparison to adult adult males, so they choose adult adult males they think of would be suitable fathers. adult adult males are not as selective because of the fact if the female that they had intercourse with interior the previous have been given pregnant, it won't be his so a guy will strengthen his opportunities for survival via spreading his seed around extra in lots of cases. that's all instinctual and in actuality primal. women and adult adult males people do not think of like this; this is organic. Which brings me to the question: women people know different women persons are going to be stable mothers to their toddlers on an instinctual point so possibly the flirting is a sub huge wakeful way of finding somebody who they know will help them confirm the survival of their offspring. it would desire to sound stupid yet look it up. there are hundreds of theories on survival instincts of people. any opposite direction to determine that's question is socially. women persons are aggressive creatures via nature. as much as you adore your superb chum, you prefer to renowned who's extra suitable at each thing. this might additionally comprise flirting. it is why i don't have that many woman pals; too plenty cattiness. additionally, it would desire to be the rumor that each and everyone women people ask your self whats its prefer to be yet another woman. i will't supply an opinion on that on condition that i'm bisexual, lol, yet I do experience like there are numerous women people accessible who might prefer to test with different women people. So! There you circulate.
2016-12-11 06:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cuz ur a weirdo. ever think of that? jk. probaly becuz shes trying to make u jealous.
2006-12-10 12:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by The butter duchess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are powerful detectors of insecurity and do not find it attractive.
You sound very insecure and she probably picks up on that.
2006-12-10 14:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by socialdeevolution 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she dont find you attractive. you want to quit your job because a woman wont flirt with you?
2006-12-10 12:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
omg your quiting your job because some girl won't flirt with you? thats so stupid
2006-12-10 12:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by Mandy 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They might just like making people mad
2006-12-10 12:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by Pepsi Chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she wants to go out some time...
2006-12-10 12:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, do something that makes her to noticed you........... Yeh, she will eventually notice you and flirt with you XD
2006-12-10 12:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋