Im wondereing what is the best way?I really like this girl but i dont know what the best way is or like what exatly do i say and when do i say it!
2006-12-10 12:38:58 · 24 answers · asked by Daniel D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask. Be yourself. You try and dress it up any other way you'll look like a schmuck and increase your chances of rejection. Be yourself and you stand a chance.
After all, it's you she'll be going out with.
2006-12-10 12:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Wonderpants 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, don't tell her how you feel immediately. Oh, for goodness sake, just imagine: "hi, I like you, and ..." or "I've been watching you a while and I think you're cute and..." or "hi, my name's blabla, I have a crush on you and...". Never do that. The whole purpose for a date is for people to get to know each other. You don't spill your guts about your feelings until you've been a couple long enough to be sure you're right about your feelings, then decide that you want her to know. Even a date or two later you can refer to your attraction to her, but it's too heavy for starters.
The hardest part of asking someone out is the nervousness we feel. It's not a complex task, just intimidating! So, just be direct and sweet. "I'd like to go out with you sometime, would that be okay?" (she says yes here) Then say something like, "give me a couple of choices of what you'd like to do". Then you dialogue (back and forth) with her about when and where is a good time to meet, or will you be coming over to meet the parents (more nerves, but an excellent thing to happen-get it out of the way at least), should you eat before you get together or while you're out, what time she needs to be home, whatever else needs covering in advance (because this is your plan for a great date!).
Make sure you watch out for both of your safetys, so you can have more dates! Good luck, have fun, get her home 5 minutes early! (spoken like a mom, eh?)
2006-12-10 21:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol..i really dont know, ive had alotta "flings" but notta lotta realtionships...the way i would do it is first ponder the thought of when your going to do it so you have a designated time ya know. And then do the Nike way "just do it" man lol. Basically thats all to it...You have to break the ice and just say it..i would perferably do it while we are already talking and be like "Yo i was wondering if you would go out with"..you dont have to put the "yo" in it, just be you and say it. Have a lil' smile on your face and look the girl in her eye..or not it really doesnt matter ya know. Mostly i nperson is the manly way..internet is just cheap, phone..sure why not, but it takes a man to pop a heated question like that personally ya know lol...good look son. PEACE
2006-12-10 20:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her when she is alone...not with a bunch of friends. Be confident, have a few ideas already planned and just come out and ask her if she would like to go to a movie with you. It doesn't have to be a movie...that's just an example, but you get the idea. Just remember to be confident, not overpowering. If she says no for this time...don't necessarily take it as rejection. People are really busy these days...she may be interested for another time. If you are really nervous, try making it a group date and ask her if she would like to join a bunch of you. Make sure there are both your friends and hers going. That may be a good start for a first time out. Good luck.
2006-12-10 20:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by tmw36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of ways to ask girls out. I would start by asking to something informal like a movie with other friends, or lunch or coffee.
The movies with friends is the easiest, just say "hey some friend and are are going to see
2006-12-10 20:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by bluechick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like this girl so much then what to say to her shouldn't be a problem. If you like her as much as you claim, when you finally approach her you will figure out on your own what to say to her... there really is not cool, lame, or bestway to ask someone out. It depends on how you feel about that person and how bad you want them.
2006-12-10 20:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by CaramelKisses16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go up and tell her" hey i dont need any 16 yr old bull crap. i like u but if your goin to be my woman i need to set some grounds on our relationship.
1. no back talk.
2. wash the dishes and shut up.
3. love me all the time
4. do not speak in public
5. mow the lawn
6. wash my car
and i will love u forever..... trust me dude this works. ive been hapily married for 3 weeks now
2006-12-10 20:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by mike m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first things first tell her how u feel ten if she feels the same way then ask her out and if she says yes then ask her out to the movies or some thing
2006-12-10 20:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by Ally. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it is a nerve racking ordeal sometimes. Just grit your teeth and go up and ask her. Maybe ask if she would like to catch a movie or something. Maybe go to a game.
2006-12-10 20:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date: Just say "Hey would you like to hang out sometime, my treat."
Ask as a Girlfriend: Whenever y'all are together having a good time together and y'all are feeling each other.
2006-12-10 20:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋