what do u find most attractive, the physical, or mental being of a guy, what does love truly mean to you? How do you truly know if your in love? And how much does looks truly acount for?
2006-12-10 12:30:06 · 22 answers · asked by Allen C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He should be presentable at least and neat. I like a guy who can handle a good conversation.
Love means loving all about that person and learning how to compromise if you need to.
I know I'm in love when I started thinking about him and me in a more serious way, not just an object of fascination and fun. When I would care for him as much as I would care for myself, in a deeper sense, then I'm truly in love.
Looks are superficial. The way he asserts himself is more attractive, not boastful or over confident. At first look, what captures my eyes is the neatness...then personality...if it even goes further, sexuality plays an important role too.
2006-12-10 12:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u find most attractive, the physical, or mental being of a guy?
all of the above matters, i guess it's just finding a good mix... if you have the looks of tom cruise, and the brain of a cockcroach.... never mind...
what does love truly mean to you?
love to me is a gift, whether it ends up hurting you or not.. it's a feeling that tells you, you are human.
How do you truly know if your in love? And how much does looks truly acount for?
looks I account for 50% --- honestly.
i know that i am in love when i think of someone even when I'm doing the dishes, cooking, working, etc.
2006-12-10 12:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by terra w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to start, it is both physical and mental being. If someone is plain stupid but in good shape, I dont think that would work out. Love to me really is when two people would risk anything to be together, that is also how you know if you are truly in love, if you are willing to take such a risk. Looks do have an impact with SOME girls. If this girl you like or will like doesn't like you just because of how you look, then remember she isn't the right one! Good Luck!
2006-12-10 12:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find the mental, then physical. I like a guy who is smart, has morals and values. They have to have something going for themselves. Love to me is really indescribable, its a feeling that I can't describe. You know your in love when u can't eat sleep, function, think....u just know that, that's the person u want to spend the rest of your life with. Let's say the package was 100% and I would say that looks would be about 45%.
2006-12-10 12:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by songbirdz03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is kind and loving and caring-they both have to care for each other. and tries to have a home life with a woman and enjoy kissing and touching cuddling and talking having sex and working together what more could she even hope for? For many women this is a dream that never comes true. being faithful and honest and then a woman has one of the most precious things of all that there is in the earth.
2006-12-10 12:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care how hot a man is, if he's an idiot I could never be attracted to him. I am very attracted to someone's mind. Having said that, of course there has to be some physical chemistry as well. As for "being in love".... I think, for myself, it means that someone has managed to steal my heart away to the point that he has the power to hurt me. Scary!
2006-12-10 12:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks, generally works for me for FIRST IMPRESSIONS. It would probably be a plus in getting ladies to give them their numbers. But, on the date, and most likely in the RELATIONSHIP, the mental being of a guy would be more significant and important for me. Sure, it would be nice to be seen with a nice looking guy. But I surely won't be able to stand a guy who's not "mentally challenging". I'd eventually break up with him.
Love for me is respect, understanding and consideration for one another. And looks, really, is just skin deep.
2006-12-10 12:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me I like a guy who is emotionally stable and mature A great mind and a great sense if humor can make a guy attractive.
When I look into the eyes of my now fiancee and I see us in his eyes and i feel that I want to spend the rest of my life with him,and he makes me happy and complete I get butterflies just thinking about him When I would do almost anything to make him happy,but he never asks for anything but me That's how I know I am in love with my man,
2006-12-10 12:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by leoslady3900 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of questions! I need a man who is intelligent and can converse well. That's first. Looks are good, but I've done pretty.... and it can be very ugly inside. I'll take ugly, but smart and loving anytime, before I'd take someone just because of their looks.
You know you're in love when you would lay down your life and make sacrifices for the other person's well-being.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-10 12:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all think guys are hott. but we wont date a hott guy who is all mean and acts like "I dont need you". But ya cant be all gross and lie need to take a shower. You know, I have never been in love. Love is something that has been taken too lightly in this world, and I wont let it get to me. When love comes, a girl will know, no matter what the guy looks like.
2006-12-10 12:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by strawberrydaiquiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋