men since my divoce last year. The guy I'm dating now is 54, and widowed and wants me to have a makeup makeover, do I just go along Or what?
2006-12-10 12:25:48 · 24 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you want it? if you do then i say go for it... but if he is pushing you to get it i say get rid of him! there are other men out therethat will love everything about ya!
2006-12-10 12:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by BlankProfile 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a point. You can see if the makeover he wants doesnt involve permanent changes such as plastic surgery, and then try it out in private. See if you like the change. If not, then it is better to avoid this man. At your two ages, makeup shouldnt be the point of attraction, as you have already gone through this long ago. I think he is trying to get a control over your personal likes and attitudes, and you should move on. You dont always live for others in these personal matters.
2006-12-10 12:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget this jerk. Are you so horrible that you have to be re-done? What about him? Bet he's looking his age. 45 is young. Go for a YOUNGER guy - they're funner and they don't expect you to act young, because the reason they like you is older women have confidence and know what men are like. Dump gramps - he's not worthy of you. Have fun.
2006-12-10 12:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by Miz Teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, an old man is telling you that you need a makeover?
When is he going in for HIS makeover?
2006-12-10 12:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that a guy should tell a woman how to dress or how to wear their makeup. If you are going to do it, do it for yourself not him. If you want to do it, if you feel you need a new look, if not then tell him that you're happy with yourself how you are.
2006-12-10 12:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the making of a control freak to me.
If he can't find the beauty that you've described others have seen in you...seems like too much trouble to have to deal with.
Find someone who harmonizes with where you find your happiness.
2006-12-10 12:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sailon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It is always a good idea to take care of yourself. I wish some one would give me a free make over.
2006-12-10 12:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by sandra g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost, he is trying to make you into what he wants not what you are, and it sounds like you are satisfied with the way you are and you should be...so tell this joker to move on..you will have a lifetime of doing what he wants and it will never be enough.........
2006-12-10 12:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him. It's obvious he wants the makeover for his benefit and not yours. Unless he's offering it to you for your sake and for fun, but I doubt it. He doesn't think you are good enough for him as you are. Go find someone who will appreciate you for you and not how much you can change to please him.
2006-12-10 12:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by Nose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably attractive and he believes you would look more attractive if you'd wear make-up.Is it time to take a look at your old self image and update it?If not,ignore it,but if you are openminded,why not try something new?
2006-12-10 12:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a makeover? I think that is your answer. Don't do it for the guy.
2006-12-10 12:28:12 · answer #11 · answered by bluechick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋