What happens when shes in love, and ur not, wat r u sopsed to do?
2006-12-10 12:22:28 · 22 answers · asked by Allen C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest with her she will be hurt be at least you will be a man and tell her the truth.
2006-12-10 12:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest. You seem young, so I assume she is as well. Tell her that you really aren't prepared for that type of relationship, and you need to get a better understanding of what love is before you can offer love to her or anyone else. Tell her that you probably won't be ready for love anytime soon. From that point on, the decision is up to her. She can stay or leave, or maybe you should just say that it is over. Why waste your time when you could be finding the one that's right for you.
2006-12-10 20:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by MiMi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suppose you need to face her and tell her the truth or live with someone you do not love any longer.
Have you ever stopped to consider why? Relationships take work. They do not work just because you are together. Too many these days choose to throw their relationships away before ever trying to make it better. If you can not put forth the effort to make your relationship right there is not much you will put forth effort on.
2006-12-10 20:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep working on it and if you really think that it wont work out between you two, let her know. Nothing hurts a girl more than something that isnt real. Just tell her the truth and things will work out for the best!
2006-12-10 20:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by PhatPhat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you dont love her,dont play ghetto games with her.I am sure she would rather you tell her the truth and hurt her feelings then to string her along and miss lead her.The truth dont need any support.By being honest maybe after the hurt fade yall can be friends.By being straight up with her she should respect you for telling her,and at the end i am sure she will say to her self.......at least he told me.
2006-12-10 20:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by ellie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont led her on... if u are together and she loves u then mayb you just need more time... but if u think that u will not ever love her then u musnt stay with her because it is only giving her false hope... if u do not love someone make sure you are not making them think that you do because it only makes it harder for them in the long run as they get really hurt...
2006-12-10 20:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her.
Don't let her grow false expectations on your relationships. Imagine that you would want her to do the same if the situation was reverse
2006-12-10 20:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by fern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Love.
First off, please use correct English. It's hard to comprehend with what you're asking.
Tell her to face logic. You're either over her, or never liked her in the first place. If things get really bad, I'd suggest just friendship.
"emotions hurt, sometimes you must face logic"
2006-12-10 20:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls sometimes do play hard-to-get! And sometimes they don't mean what they say. I know it can be difficult but that's nature. Try to work hard on the relationship.
2006-12-10 20:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don"t love her but tell her U still want to be friends. And, You don't want to take your friendship any farther then is already at.
2006-12-12 20:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by pixy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain it to the other person why you are not in love with them. Try to be easy about it.
2006-12-10 20:24:44 · answer #11 · answered by romeo3448 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋