i just read it here on someones answer, her IM address in not available so i can't ask her.
i would like to hear everyone's expriences.
2006-12-10 12:19:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea, it is, but there's a difference between confident and cocky, and no one likes a cocky guy. confidence means that he doesn't need you complimenting him all the time, and he's secure enough in himself to trust you when you go out and do your own thing.
2006-12-10 12:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by someone in the world 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how i got so many girls in my clubbing days. I'd walk around like i owned the place but would always say hello to everyone so i wouldn't look arrogant. Women instinctively look for a provider in men whether they want a keeper or a one night stand. Confidence shows strength and therefore the subconscious instinct of women is wired to seek out the stronger male for reproduction even if that's not the intent it's the way people are wired.
It's also quite true that the more sexually aggressive the woman is the more fertile she is.
2006-12-10 20:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's true. Chicks dig confidence in a guy. A guy who is insecure and self-conscious is a real turn-off. But know this, the confidence has to be authentic, not faked. An intelligent female can always tell when a guy is faking confidence as he tries too hard. And over confidence in a guy is a turn OFF for sure. A nice balance of confidence and humbleness works well in any relationship.
2006-12-10 20:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Nose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in a sense. If he's cocky, Im sorry he's out of the race for me. Its not very appealing. But, yes, confidence is one key.
2006-12-10 20:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by I♥ny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy that has self confidence is very sexy... It shows that he feels good about himself and that's a very big turn on...
2006-12-10 20:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confident but not arrogant
2006-12-10 20:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say sexy, but yes it is appealing...confident (not cocky) people tend to attract others...
2006-12-10 20:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is. No one likes a p-ussy. Confident guys are more of a challenge, and we like to be challenged.
2006-12-10 20:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah well for me it is
he has to be secure of himself
so that we can feel secure with him
if something were to happen
we can know he can defend us
2006-12-10 20:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by MoNiCa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, confidence.... but don't mistake it for *********.....
2006-12-10 20:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by QueenChristine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋