My boyfriend of one year and 2 months just broke up with me because he told me not to talk to this guy 8 months ago and i just messaged him on facebook and he told my boyfriend. me and this guy dont have anything going on and are just friends, if that.
Do you think he overreacted?? The guy said something like he is good for me or something like that in the msg and i guess he sent it to my boyfriend like that. Shouldnt my boyfriend be mad at him and not me..? he said i have pushed him to the edge. i want him back so bad, i love him. :'[ help me.
And what can i do to not think of him.
I dont have like any friends that i hang with out of school because i was always with him. I dont know what to do. My mom has to take me to school tomorrow because i havent gotten my liscence yet and im 17. wow.
2006-12-10 12:15:46 · 5 answers · asked by the boss [amj] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend is out of line to be mad at you and he has blown this way out of proportion.. Your BF may want his ego stroked by seeing you beg him back... You really need to use a little stradegy on your BF.. blow his mind a little and do something he would not expect.... What your BF expects is for your mom to drop you off at school and you run to him in tears begging his forgiveness and professing your love so he can be bitter and mad and shrug you off all day so you will suffer a little longer for talking to the boy he told you not to talk to 8 months ago... So this is what you do... the opposite of what he expects so he will be running to you for forgiveness.. Either text or leave voicemail on your BF communication device. what ever it is.. Say hey, I just wanted you to know that guy (I don't even like) came after me and all I did was answer which was only a human response and he is the one who sent message to you trying to set me up to look bad in your eyes. It's obvious this guy must like me for him to go to this extreme to break us up. But what makes me even more upset is the little faith you have in me. I am so hurt and totally disappointed in you that it will be hard for me to even talk to you tomorrow until I get over the huge disappointment I have in you right now. So thats all I have to say.. then tomorrow, totally ignore it.. Go the opposite direction, don't go anywhere he is.. Make him wonder, miss you and question his old way of thinking. I promise you within one day, he will be back apologizing to you... Its only human nature and it will work. Let me know how it all went down and follow that advise to a T..Also find time to have girlfriends.. balance your life better
2006-12-10 12:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you were set up. Apparently your EX knows the "guy" and what this guy is capable of. Your ex boyfriend felt disrespected when you didn't heed his warning and called this guy anyway. He no longer trusts you. If he truly did love you however he will forgive you and take you back.
Waht you can do not to think of him is keep yourself occupied. Join a club, meet new people, go on line and help others by answering questions like these.
2006-12-10 20:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to talk to your ex-boyfriend about this situation. His reaction is understandable...I mean how would you feel if he'd massaged another girl?
Also, try to make some friends cause it's not good being depedant on only one person and let that person be the only center in your world.
2006-12-10 20:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ankhesenamun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him and say sorry about what you did. But he did over react, and he will probably want to get back together with you tomorrow.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-10 20:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Red Baron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he probably told you not to talk to that person for a reason
you should have asked him the reason and probably should not have done it he might have known that the guy had someting up his sleeve
2006-12-10 20:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by PASSION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋