My first boyfriend goes to a different school and is in the 9th grade. My second boyfriend goes to my school and is in 10th grade.
Well my friend said she is going to tell my first boyfriend that i'm cheating on him if I don't break up with one of them. She says it isn't fair to them both. But I like them both! They are both cute! And they are both so different too! I can't choose! I want them both! What should I do?
2006-12-10 12:04:37 · 41 answers · asked by May P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow up and choose which one, before you end up with neither
2006-12-10 12:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me, I would do my best to avoid this type of situation, but... my honest opinion...
Break up with the first boyfriend... Don't lie to him, either. You tell him you are going out with someone else.
I know it's very impersonal of me to say that, but I'm thinking life would probably be better for the both of you in that respect... For all you know, the first boyfriend has his eye on someone at his own school. And even if he doesn't, perhaps he will; he's only a freshman.
2006-12-10 12:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first thing I can think to say is how would you like if one of them did this to you? Both of these guys think you really care for them..What happens if they both find out about the other? Then you stand a chance to loose them both..Is that worth it? It dont matter what school they go to just search your heart...Which one makes you feel more complete? Both im sure has qualities you admire but only one can make you feel alive...So pray and ask God to help you with your choice..Better to let go of one and allow him the chance to find happiness than they both find out and you loose them both..God help you
2006-12-10 12:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all your friend is right, it isn't right to them that you are cheating. Get a piece of paper and write one name on one side and the other on the other side. Under their names write the qualites you like about them, then write the qualties you dislike about them. Then go on from that. See which one has the qualities you like better, and which one has the inqualities (dislikes) that you get annoyed by really fast. Pick the one that is better for you. Even though since you are cheating I think they both deserve better than that!
2006-12-10 12:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you need to break up with BOTH of them! Both of them are too good for you. You're just a little sl*t and guys don't deserve to be treated that way.
How would you like it if found out that your boyfriend had 2 girlfriends? You'd be pretty pissed right?
Well, I just think you're messed up.
2006-12-10 12:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by CaLiFoRnIa_PaGeAnT_GiRl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay break up wit both of them that is what i did cause then u shouldn't have any problems wit them then settle down for a while and go searching for someone new but only date one and don't cheat on anyone else cause if they find out u r gunna have some serious problems!
2006-12-10 12:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by briannanicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u should have done is just started dating both but just as friends. U should just tell both u're not ready for a relationship and that u just want to date and see what happens.
2006-12-10 12:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by naweb230 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, all I can say is that you brought this on yourself! Obviously, there had to be an agreement between you and the 9th grader and you and the 10th grader, saying that you'd be girlfriends with each one. I sure wouldn't wanna be in your shoes!
2006-12-10 12:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by ღQueenღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get rid of one of them or theyre both going to leave you. Make a list of the good things and bad things about both of them and the one that has the most good things you should stay with. good luck!
2006-12-10 12:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by heavy_metal_freak113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop choosing guys because they r cute. Find out which 1 u actually connect with then try choosing again.
i just find it weird how u managed to say yes to the 2nd 1 tht asked u out... u shudv known by then surely...
2006-12-10 12:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋