my boyfriend always tells me how pritty, and how perfact i am, he always says im just the one for him, but we are always fighting, i try so hard to pass the hole fighting fase, but its so hard, he blams me for everything that ever go's wrong,he blamed me for his mom dieing, both of my parents r dead but i dont blam him for it, its geting hard,we've been together for 3 years now, but i dont think i can take all the fighting anymore, so what now?
2006-12-10 11:56:34 · 14 answers · asked by icantdothisanymore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can he love when he doesn't love himself? He has anger issues he's directing at you when he should look within for the answer to that. Walk away but not before asking him to seek help.
2006-12-10 12:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i agree with u if he keep doing that to u tell him " do u hate me "
then when u recieve the answer from him u will decide to stay or going
i cant imagine u still live with someone blame u for everything and like to fight with u alll the time
2006-12-10 20:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he always blaming you for his mothers death or is did he only blame you once? To me, it sounds like he does love you, but maybe he is stubborn and its very, very hard to make someone hard-headed to understand your point of view. if you find yourself crying everyday because of all this fighting, then maybe you should try spending time apart and see how that goes. But if he continues to blame you for everything, then maybe its time to move on because he is emotionally abusing you and its only getting worse.
2006-12-10 20:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by 1love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put one foot in front of the other..and soon you'll b walking out that door!!
*borrowed from a famous Christmas cartoon from the 60's can't rmbr the name though
2006-12-10 19:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that maybe u2 just need some time apart with all the thing that has happen.but a good way to find out if u relay need to brake up. is if u fill the need to go to some one else to talk to because u know that all it will end up as an argument!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-10 20:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by danyelle m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. spellcheck! nifty, eh?
2. think about his needs. He might just need somebody to "take it out" on about his moms death. although it's wrong, it will only make him feel worse if you leave him too. try to stick it out for a while longer, and pray that things go well.
2006-12-10 20:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by lala89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just going throught hard times since hes parents died and some guys instead of been sad n crying release their stress and pain been mad so just chill if it gets worse call it quits
2006-12-10 19:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by jose m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely, if he blames you for his mom dieing that is just stupid. if you can't take all the fighting, it's not worth it.
oh, and i'm really sorry about your parents :(
2006-12-10 20:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by stephhh. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's dealing wit some problems and he shouldn't be blaming you for any thing especially his mother death that's just out of the question and you somebody better
2006-12-10 19:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by american girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him ... he blames you for his mom dying WTF!!! Anyway if you plan to get married and end up with him it doesn't take a genius to see that it'll end in divorce one way or another. Just leave him, words aren't enough to keep a relationship strong.
2006-12-10 20:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by JK Sy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋