would you tell them?
even when you just broke up...and you never told them before?
even when they hurt you...and you keep regretting?
even when you think they might have already started to hate you?
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i think i am in love with this guy who hurt me...
2006-12-10 11:52:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's told me he has moved on
and he's never been in love...
2006-12-10 11:54:51 · update #1
kimee, me love you long time
2006-12-11 09:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that they don't feel the same. This person could be thinking and wondering the same things as you. Go for it, you only live once. Ten years from now, if you ran into this person and started talking about the past, and they told you that they were so in love with you back then, you would kick yourself for not telling them. "LIVE A LIFE WITHOUT REGRET" The worst that can happen is he/she will reject you, it will hurt and you will feel so stupid I am sure, but you will heal and find someone else, I promise you that. But if this person feels the same way you do, you could end up being together forever, think of it that way, it could be your future that you are going to ruin if you don't go for it, you never know!!!!!
Even if he has moved on and has said this, I would still go for it. Talk from your heart, that can never be a mistake.
2006-12-10 11:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 742 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they'd hurt you no way. Keep it for yourself
Sounds silly but sometimes its nice to have that feeling an not let anyone take it away.
I've been in Love with the same girl for seven years an I haven't seen her for three.
Its hard cus its all I want to tell her, her face is focused on infinity everywhere I look.
I know she'd never feel it for me but nobody can take it away from me.
End of the day at least I know how much my "in Love" means.
An yeah she hurt me to.
2006-12-10 12:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To all of the above, maybe. EXCEPT the one about someone hating you. Difficult as it may seem just now hold on to your self respect and walk away, if you geninely think someone hates you why put yourself through the trauma and upset which is inevitable.
You will probably find it hard just now to keep quiet, but after time you will be glad you did and you can move on with your head held high and your dignity intact.
Good luck x
2006-12-10 11:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry sweetie....broken hearts are awful.
Don't waste your love on people that hurt you ( I know that's easier said than done because you can't always chose.).
There are a lot of nice people out there you can have a great relationship with, don't pass them all by to be in love with what's really just a vision of someone.
2006-12-10 11:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abvsolutely not. You need to move on. He's not the only guy in the world you know. Go find someone who actually respects you. I'm sure you can do a lot better then him anyway.
2006-12-10 12:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell the truth honestly is always the best policy.
You cannot make a person love you.
The above two axioms of relationships endure the test of time.
Follow your heart.
2006-12-10 13:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if you should love a guy that hurt you but i would tell him/her or make it obvious that you like him/her. Don't make it to serious though make it casual. if they like you back maybe something can happen, if they don't act on it then just stay friends but at least you got it off your chest, if they freak out it'll be easier to get over them and you'll realize that you shouldn't have leked them in the first place.
2006-12-10 12:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by m&m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouln't tell him. All the feelings feel really intense right now but that will fade eventually. If you tell him, it's not going to do either of you any good I think, especially if he's already hurt you. It sucks, I know.
2006-12-10 11:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by noisymilly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.....at least you would speak what your heart feels and know he wil know the truth,and what he will do....? well i cant say but if you feel like you two are so good together why worry?maybe he feels the same way but he is scared that you will do the same with him!give it a go and then know for sure it was ment to be or just a good friendship!you dont want to whait for someone if if you dont know if he is the one?...............do you?
2006-12-11 00:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by marcel7023 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him so he knows how you feel but if he doesn't feel the same if you really love him you will have to move on and let him be happy however much it hurts if you love him you will want his happiness it happened to me and i know it hurts like hell he hurt me too and that was cos we wasnt meant to be
2006-12-10 12:20:12 · answer #11 · answered by ginageorge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋