I had this friend who i met at the beginning of the year, and we became very close very fast. he would come over to my house, call me all the time, and take me out places. He even bought my g-ma a bday gift. Everyone had said we looked like we were dating, but i never saw it. He walked me to class everday, and would hug me everytime we parted ways. One day i realized i liked him. alot. but i didn't change anything. we continued to flirt, but i never told anyone about my huge crush on him - although it was just as obvious as the fact that he liked me. Then one day, he randomly stopped talking to me. i hadn't done anything different or wrong, he just pretended that he didn't know me, with no warning whatsoever. when i asked him what it was about, he replied "we just looked too much like something we weren't" and we never spoke again. then, today, 3 months later, he came up to me in the hallway and acted like nothing had happened, as if we were still best friends... should i be mad?
2006-12-10 11:51:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd be mad. You have every right to be mad. If you give him too hard of a time, you risk losing your friendship forever, but if you don't give him a hard time at all, what lesson has he learned?
Talk to him, and cautiosly let him back in. If you guys do get that close again, let him know how you feel and take a chance. He may have ended the friendship because he didn't want to ruin it forever by dating, or maybe he liked you so much and couldn't handle just being friends (he didn't know you liked him back).
Either way, good luck and be careful.
2006-12-10 11:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all the mere fact that you discovered this yourself without an psychological treatment leads me to say that you are not. However, I would recommend that you get yourself checked with a psychiatrist or psychologist. Also you are 14 so this is not an uncommon thing for young people. You may be thinking that you have Schizophrenia but if you did then you wouldn't know at all what you do from one time to another.
2016-05-23 03:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes u should be mad i would be pissed if a guy did something like that 2 me u wanna know something funny 4 a second i thought u were a guy until u said should i be mad well anyway i think for the pass three months he missed u but didnt know how 2 approach u and now he has so just go with the flow if does it again then u need 2 take action
best of luck=P
2006-12-10 11:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by whitney b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe when he said you people acted like something that were not, he meant to give you a signal that if you have something for him in heart then accept it or confess it. But since you never did he is back to try again, he really loves you. And do act a little mad for him leaving you in the middle.
2006-12-10 11:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He may have had cold feet. Or, maybe he thought you did. Maybe he learnt a valuable lesson in the time apart.
Be calm and nonchalant. Otherwise, he will think you got too serious and may take off again. I don't think you want that to happen. It could be three more months.
2006-12-10 11:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he decided to persue other interests that didn't pan out in the end, and decided to give you another shot. OR something mental is going on. Before it goes any farther... I would ask. If you dont get a answer you can live with... then keep it a distant relationship.
2006-12-10 11:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by oregonnymph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you took to long to let him know how you felt. He was abviously showing you he liked you and you never said anything. So maybe thats y he made that smart remark. To let you know, but came back 3 months later when he could deal. or maybe he just didn't want a girl.... or found one.
2006-12-10 11:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, don't be mad, he is a guy. boys are alot different then us girls. what may seem really weird to them, is a alot different to us. i would not be mad at him, i would just be happy that you found such a great friend. if you know you like him, and that he likes you, then why don't you ask him to a dance or just out. what do you have to loose. if he says no, it would be really rude if he stopped being your friend. just know your feelings, and that it is not your fault. you have to email me and tell me how my idea works out.
2006-12-10 11:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like one of ya'll should have made a move earlier and said something. Be happy he is interested again and don't let him get away.
2006-12-10 11:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Dub 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be mad if u still want to be friends with him. ask him wat happened, but dont push the subject. someone might hav just thrown a rude comment at him and he got embarrassed to be around u. even though thats wrong to do, dont be mad at him, he's human like every one else. listen to him and be a good friend.
i hope thats helpfull!
2006-12-10 11:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by cate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋