What are the signs of female attraction?

Question

I will appreciate it if ladies can answer this one. What non-verbal signs do you give out to potential romantic partners? And how do you behave if you are not interested? am a bit on the shy side and can never read these accurately. Thanks!

Answer 1

Personally, I always smile and laugh a lot around someone I like and it's the only time I tend to blush! If I don't like someone and I'm trying to discourage them from making a move, I tend to keep a lot of physical distance between us and not really pay attention to what they're saying because I'm thinking 'Oh God, how do I get rid of them!'

Answer 2

Ash, hey buddy this is what I look for (some of the things you girls do without noticing. Feel free to confirm or deny). Some girls will avoid eye contact not because of not being interested, but because they are shy or nervous so look to see if thier body is facing you even if their head is not. Also watch for nervous habits while you talk to them, like playing or flicking thier hair, hands near mouth. Careful with that though, depending on how it's executed this may be a sign of boredom. Even the slightest smile is a good thing to accompany these. Watch for increase blinking. If they are not interested you will see "closed behavior". Crossed arms, lack of interest in conversation or sometimes sitting back in thier chair. Hope this helps!

Answer 3

First sight attraction is usually purely physical. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Getting to know someone and admiring them for certain traits, that could very well be sign related. You are drawn to someone because of the personality, etc that they exhibit. If one were to seperate positive and negative signs alone, I can't see where there would be attraction based on this alone.

Answer 4

well if im not interested i sort of tune him out while he is talking about something that is not important but i still respect him if i do like him then well ill be all over him and act like hes the only one in the world that matters just dont let her know that ur nervous and everything will be okay. Girls/women like a guy who takes charge not some guy who acts like hes not expirienced

Answer 5

Eye contact, smiling and playing with hair........all good signs. If no interest no contact.......thats how it is for me anyway.
Good luck and don't be shy, life's way too short to miss out on an opportunity

Answer 6

BODY LANGUAGE I tend to lean towards the guy I like when talking to him and maybe just a little touch on the arm during a conversation or something like that

Answer 7

I laugh and smile alot.
I always try to be around the guy and flirt with him.
I may sometimes grab his arm or just ya know flirt.
I'm shy, but I still let him know.

Answer 8

Loads of eye contact and maybe a smile? If im not interested I would ignore them. Do you ever notice eye contact thats longer than normal? Look back & hold their stare. Good luck.

Answer 9

I personally; Make lots of eye contact, Smile lots, ask lots of questions about them, lick my lips, play or flick my hair, laugh at things even when they aren't really that funny, pay compliments. All major signs of flirting. If you notice any of these then try doing the same yourself. Kind of like mirroring her.

Answer 10

body language is a good sign , does she look at you, catch your eye then look away? does she find excuses to touch you when your talking? do her pupild dilate when she looks at you? does she fiddle with her hair or unconciously touch/stroke her collar bone area? these are all signs of a girl being attracted to you. good luck