...so there is this guy that Ilike a lot and he's a great friend, an excellant listener and he is the sweetest person in the world the problem is that he is a bad kisser. he's just way to aggressive and not in a good take-charge kind of way he's just bad. I don't want to tell him that he needs kissing help but for my sake and the sake of future women he's with he could use a few tips. I like guys who know what they want and all but he needs to learn to be more gentle, since he is SSSSOOOO aggressive everytime there is almost no romance when we kiss even though he is a very romantic guy and I like him ALOT. What should I do?
2006-12-10 11:36:29 · 10 answers · asked by kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start by complimenting him on things you like about him or he'll take the directions as negative. Then ease into the subject like it's no big deal, show him how he kisses on him (you immitating) then show him how he could be better with a second kiss (the right way). Compliment the heck out of him for any improvement then keep practicing.
2006-12-10 11:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've kinda had the same problem except my guys wasnt' agressive. Truthfully he woldn't open his mouth enough. So you can write a not to him saying can u kiss more like ______ (how ever). Tell him really nicely. And if u don't want to do that all u have to do is train him (i had to do that with my guy.....it was worth is). But i would say do the note thing cause it really does work (my guy just needed a little help). Good luck!
2006-12-10 11:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by itillianchk10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not tell him he is too aggressive? Why not level with him and be honest and tell him how you feel when he kisses you? Communication is very important in any relationship because without communication there can be no relationship. Wouldn't you want a guy to tell you the problem if this was your problem?
2006-12-10 11:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might ask if you happen to might train with certainly one of your great man peers, simply allow them to realize you are nonetheless simply peers if that is the way you consider. The bigger resolution is uncover your self a companion who likes you for who you're, inform them you are unhealthy at kissing earlier than hand, in the event that they rather like then you definately they're going to be sufferer with you and educate you ways. If either one of you're unhealthy kissers gain knowledge of in combination what feels proper to either one of you in combination.
2016-09-03 08:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by pointdexter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sumtimes in life we gotta make sacrficies so be staright up with him ask him if he could be a little more gentle cuz hez too agressive just talk and level with him if hez as sweet as u say then he should be able to understand and change
2006-12-10 11:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by gutta chiq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a book on kissing and mail it to him without revealing your identity. He should get the hint.
2006-12-10 11:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you do. Get completely attached to this guy and have sex with him. Then when he dumps you so he can be with his girlfriend you can be an even bigger emotional disaster than you already are. In other words find someone that isn't already taken, dummy!
2006-12-10 11:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
when your kissing him next time and he starts to get aggressive stop kissing him and tell him to try adn be softer and then show him.
2006-12-10 11:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you like it slow and soft. Men want to know what turns you on.
2006-12-10 11:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to take the lead, men sometimes like that and then you can show what you like xxx
2006-12-10 11:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by JODIEXXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋