I dont want to really change him. just he's always getting psysically hurt. atleast 1 time A WEEK, he gets injured BADLY. i tell him to be careful and watch what he does. about 2 hours ago i found out he was in the hospital for breaking his knee! and last weekend he had to go there because he twisted his ankle.. seriously... how can i make him do things more careful?
2006-12-10 11:34:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a daredevil.. he'll do anything really.. no problems with balance
2006-12-10 11:38:14 · update #1
He's a daredevil.. he'll do anything really.. no problems with balance
2006-12-10 11:38:16 · update #2
He's a daredevil.. he'll do anything really.. no problems with balance
2006-12-10 11:38:19 · update #3
Are his accidents being caused by falling? If so, has anyone ever suggested to have his equilibrium checked? He might have a balance problem.
Otherwise, you can't really do much, except for tell him to take his time and slow down. Maybe if he has to think about taking his time, he will and wont have another fall.
2006-12-10 11:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyedLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like subconsciously he might find a need for all the pain. Normal people don't break bones all the time unless they jump over cars with a motorcycle for a living.
I had a buddy who was always getting hospitalized, and when i inquired deeper i realized just how mentally screwed up he was. He just set hiself up for the beating, it seemed.
2006-12-10 19:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing you need to stop acting like his mom and let him be a man, And maybe he is just accident prone you love him but you can't change noone that has to come from him not you he will be just fine, Relax and don't stress yourself out too much.
2006-12-10 19:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your trying to change him, then babe, your working towards a lost cause. There is nothing you can do that will change him. He will eventually get tired of being hurt and that's when he will change. When it means something to him.
2006-12-10 19:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by samuel j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If severe pain and injuries won`t change his behavior then nothing you or anyone else says will make any difference.
2006-12-10 20:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if hez actin like a dumbass then dump his azz he aiint worth it if u been tryin to tell him to stop and he wont listen then he obviously dont care what u think so leave da loser before he endz up dead and u get blamed . simple azz dat
2006-12-10 19:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by gutta chiq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change him but you can voice your concerns tell him that you are worried about him getting injured so much and just hope that he cares about you enough to be more careful
2006-12-10 19:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol tell him Darwin's theory is trying its best to do him in... and that your worried that it might succeed... if he cares for you he'll at least try to be more careful.
2006-12-10 19:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Kat B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women marry men hoping to change him, men marry women hoping she will never change. Neither get what they want.
2006-12-10 19:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by Deus Luminarium 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't, he'll never learn any other way, besides the hard way as he is. it's unfortunate, but it's just the way things are.
2006-12-10 19:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by n3rdluvr2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋