im so in love with this guy that he only wanted sex from me because he has a girlfriend.Im so jealus that she is his leading lady and he doesnt know i excist.im so angry i tried so hard to get close to him but i faced a wall.why do they start seeing someone else and not say from the beginning they love their girl ?why tell me they have broken up ?and how can they be so indifferent to someone that shows so much affection?im a girl too!how can she be getting everything and im getting nothing?what makes her important and not me?and why cheat if he loves her so much?how i wish things were different...
2006-12-10 11:30:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why should she get everything? please... think about this for a sec?
so you got laid and now you think you are in love? some of us have actually experienced true love and just for the record we hate it when those who havnt throw the word "love" around like it means nothing, but that is not what this is about.
so you are upset why again?
ohhh i get it, its because the other girl ended up with the cheating loser, am i right?
poor you! your absolutely right why couldn't i have been you that he cheated on? why couldn't you have had him while he was using other girls for sex? why cant it be your man telling other girls that you have broken up and arent together?
yeah, shes got it so easy alright. i mean she does have everything and your left with nothing, right?
well, ill tell you what you have still got...
your dignity, congratulations.
i suggest you make friends with his girlfriend because when he breaks her heart she is going to need a shoulder to cry on.
i guess that makes her a lucky *****!
2006-12-10 11:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by *juicyjellybean* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you want to know why he lies, cheats and acts like a jerk? I am pretty sure it is because he is a lying, cheating jerk! Being rejected is never fun, but be GLAD! What if you were his gf? Would you like it if he had a fling with someone else? This guy is poop! Figure out why you are willing to be with someone this low, grow and learn to respect yourself, then you will find a decent man. Really, please do not waste your time on someone like that. Can anyone find happiness with a jerK?
I have felt like this before, as a teenager and as an adult. My husband cheated on me and left for someone who seemed like and inappropriate partner. His heart was broken by her. I am not glad, but I understand that things have a way of working themselves out. The second I found out about the affair(s), I left, filed for divorce and never looked back. I enjoy life as a single woman and as a wife, both have their benefits and drawbacks. Now, I have a lovely bf, he is kind, thoughtful, smart, funny, fun, a great kisser, he's the whole package! There are MANY wonderful men/guys out there! Please, learn your value (which is GREAT - you are obviously a sweet and sensitive person) and do not ever SETTLE!!!! Liars and cheaters do not change!
2006-12-10 19:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by lovely-to-be-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he so casual about hurting people? Why is his girlfriend hanging with a cheater? Why is it so important for you to want this man who is not worthy of a girl like you? I'd say the answer is low self esteem.
As a woman, I think we all meet up with a cheater. The important thing is that you remind yourself he's the loser not you. Don't allow yourself to envy his girlfriend. She's got a ton of hurt coming because she cares about that guy. His lies, his betrayal, his self centered personality is his stuff - not yours.
Feel your pain, be pissed at him, but don't beat yourself up nor waste your energy trying to get him back. He isn't a prize you'd want to win. Thank the Universe you AREN'T his girlfriend. You got cut, but you'll only bleed out a little love, you'll heal, and move on.
You're worth everything to yourself and those who love you. And, like me, you'll probably meet up with another cheater along the path of love. If you learn from this experience, you can kiss off the next cheater before he gets too close to your heart.
Hang in there....the better you feel about yourself, the more you'll see that guy for what he really is...L
2006-12-10 19:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by metaphysical_kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Step back. Take a deep breath. Chill.
Lets evaluate. He has a GF he loves. You want him, but can only serve as a sex toy for him. If you have ANY self-respect, you'd leave and never look back. No man who does this, is worth getting all riled up over.
Just... relax. There are plenty of good men out there, no matter how great one looks like. Time to move on.
2006-12-10 19:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by guardian707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I agree with Jax. You should never have gotten involved with a man who was already in a relationship. I do know it is easier said than done, but as soon as you found this out you should have made your self scarce.
"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
Sorry if this response is harsh, but it's the truth.
2006-12-10 19:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love sex. They want it, they think about it all the time. But, when a girl gives it to them, unless it's their girlfriend, they judge her and call her a wh ore regardless of the circumstances.
You slept with him while he had a girlfriend...now he knows you're willing to be the other woman. She is probably not willing to do that, so he wants to "have his cake and eat it to."
2006-12-10 19:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jax 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW ITS ALL HARD TO UNDERSTAND, THERE IS NO GOOD REASON, IT JUST IS. FOR ONE IF HE IS LIKE THAT YOU DON'T WANT HIM ANYWAY. JUST LET IT GO AND YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU IN RETURN AND YOU WILL LOOK BACK ON THIS GUY AND THINK... WHAT WAS I THINKING.... THIS GUY NOW IS GREAT! I CAN PROMISE THIS CUZ I WENT THRU IT TOO! FIND A WAY TO LET IT GO AND DONT LET IS RUEN YOU FOR THE NEXT NICE GUY! I FEEL SORRY FOR HIS GIRLFRIEND HE WILL KEEP CHEATING ON HER, BE THANKFUL ITS NOT YOU HE IS CHEATING ON! BE IN CHARGE AND TELL HIM TO F---- OFF IF HE CALLS YOU AGIAN, IT IS VERY IMPOWERING!
2006-12-10 19:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get used 2 it guys tel u anything 2 f*k u then the real them comes out they r dr jekyll and mr hyde when it comes 2 getting p*ssy
2006-12-10 19:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't respect you. Stop chasing him and force him to respect you if he ever wants any love from you. Personally, I would find someone else.
2006-12-10 19:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He used you. He probaly was having problems with her when he messed with you. U weren't anything to him. He's in love with her. Let it go. Your too late...you are what they call a sidelin ho
2006-12-10 19:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋