hes nice but he can get so mean n it makes me sad i like him n he said hes starting to like me so i dont no is it a good or bad thing to tell him that i like him or just as a friend?
but hes really mean at some points and calls me some bad names what should i do
2006-12-10 11:30:22 · 12 answers · asked by tay_lee_babygurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get rid of him --- find someone closer to your age --- if this guy is being abusive already he does not respect you and it will only get worse
2006-12-10 11:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true you can't help who you fall for, I understand that feeling i went through a similar thing, except the opposite. I was in love with a 19 year old (I just turned 15 I was 14 at the time) and even though I loved him i knew it was no good for him, so i let him go. If you really love him that much then you'll know the best thing for you to do is just let him go. You and him have your whole life ahead of you and who knows you might find someone even better :) Sorry and good luck!
2016-05-23 03:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriouly, older guys normally only want one thing from younger girls and u know what that is. My advice stay away, when i was14 i like a guy 17 almost 18, 3 1/2 years difference. I figured out he was a loser (acted really immacture) so i thought if i wanted some one who acted my age i would get a bf my age. If he gets mean stay away. Forget about him any guy that is really mean to you and calls u bad names stay away it could lead to something else. You shouldnt' get involved witha guy who is 7 years older than you now. Find a great guy who treats you right that is your own age (even if the guys ur age are losers then can be great sometimes). Hoped i helped!
2006-12-10 11:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by itillianchk10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seven years isn't bad... at least when your in your late teens to early twenty's it's not. If he can wait for you mature and become who you are then fine. As of right now? He's a perv. to even be thinking of it. In point of fact he doesn't even sound like that great of a guy in the first place... My best friend is marring a guy who's seven years older then her but she's old enough to handle him. Over all you might want to find a guy your own age or a little older to be with.
2006-12-10 11:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kat B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well has he asked you to be his gf ? if not i suggest for the moment you just remain friends..you can still let him know you are there for him if and when he needs help. Ur only 15!! Theres no rush to go diving into a relationship yet. A good, wide circle of freinds would be much more usefull and fun for you at the moment.
hope that helps
2006-12-10 11:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by Darkside73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in the preliminary stages of learning about yourself and friends and boys...he is already a man..he could take advantage of you ..plz..harmless flirting lots of times young girls feel its harmless meanwhile back at the ranch the man is thinking of other things...I think u know what!!! ...plz stick with boys for now u will save yourself tremendous pain..and possibly pregnancy...He is proably being mean to u to brush u off dearey so as to contain his thoughts .. as weird as that sounds..but plz tell him u guys can be friends..then tell him well more like aquaintences when we see each other be polite..say hello..but agree 100% start hanging with boys close to your age...b4 u get into trouble... good luck..
2006-12-10 11:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hit up on a man that doesn't know how to respect you. even though he is older, he doesn't have the right to disrespect a young girl that likes him. besides, its illegal. If hes mean now, imagine if he was your boyfriend, he might try to get really abusive.
2006-12-10 11:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by 1love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should stay away and what do you mean he gets mean? that's prob a sign bad news..
2006-12-10 11:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by crazyblonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's mean tell him what's up or i will, give me his email, ur 16, i am 18, so c'mon he needs to grow up
2006-12-10 11:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by pimp132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run. No one deserves this man the way he is now.
2006-12-10 11:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by drgnotary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋