2006-12-10 11:29:49 · 26 answers · asked by Janie W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've been in this situation. i didn't want to break his heart and i ended up being with him for 2 years longer. it was basically a waste of my life. i could've done so much more at being single or even found a better person. don't ever feel like you are going to hurt the person and that it is your fault. no matter what they are going to feel how they will feel and there is nothing you can do about it. take care of your business now otherwise you will regret you didn't do it sooner.
2006-12-10 11:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by my nickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this experience before. I know it is difficult. Hmmmm.... Let me start by saying this. Know what you want and do it. Think long and hard about this decision. I mean if you really don't love your boyfriend anymore what is the point of still being in a relationship with him? The longer you keep it this way the more it will be difficult for you to get out of it.
First and foremost, be certain about your decision. Second, execute your plan if you really wish to break up with him. But let me remind you... Be gentle when you do this. Always bear in mind that it is easy for you to do this, but he is the one being left behind.
Hope you the Best!
2006-12-10 11:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good question. Sounds like you want it both ways. You want him and don't want him. You like the security of having a boyfriend, but don't like him as a person. Maybe you just haven't felt your dislike of him deeply enough. It sounds like you are on your way to breaking-up but are not quite there yet. Perhaps you just need a little more time to grow more disgusted with him. I would strongly discourage you from hanging on to him for too long like this. It isn't fair to you or him. It isn't fair to you because you are putting energy into someone you don't love, which makes it very hard to find someone you do love. It isn't fair to him because he is putting energy into someone who doesn't love him, making it hard for him to find someone who loves him. You are both being short changed if this goes on for too long.
2006-12-10 11:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by mopo28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why don't you want to break up w/ him if he's not right for you?Try listing all the reasons you should stay w/ him and all the reasons you shouldn't,if you have more reasons to break up then break up or vice-versa.
2006-12-10 11:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a friend call him and say that you were to sick to tell him this but you want to break up with him!
2006-12-13 13:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him, the longer your with him the more feelings grow. Do him a favor and dump him so he can already move on. If you want it'll hurt him more than if you do it now!
2006-12-10 11:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you not break up with him if you don't want him? Thats like saying I have a wart on my hand that I don't want but I don't want to get it taken off.
2006-12-10 11:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, that is the kind of trashy attitude that gives girls and women a really bad name.
Get your head on straight and start acting right.
That is ridiculous . . . If you don't want him STOP stringing him along . . . get your buttt gone.
2006-12-10 11:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it because ypu do not want to hurt his feelings?Or is it because you do not want to be alone?
If it is because you do not want to hurt his feelings,that is natural.But,you have to make yourself happy.And just discuss being friends.
If it is because you do not want to be alone,that is understandable too.No one does but that is why you have a circle of friends and family.The right one will come along.
2006-12-10 11:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by lrains34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you don't wanna break up with up? I doubt anyone will give you precise answers if you don't say something more.
2006-12-10 11:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by master343 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋