my friend's B.F is uually away for long periods. he has been away for about 6 months and most times she says she misses him. other times she says she's missed him so long she's tired of waiting. they speak to eachother but she's afraid to say how she feels.she's not even sure how she feels at time. she goes nuts when she starts talknig about it. is this on the way to a break up? any comfort i can give?
2006-12-10 11:27:14 · 6 answers · asked by salanie s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked and she said he keeps telling her how much he misses her. she gets text messages at least 4 times daily but she's afraid to tell him how she feels because its not a constant feeling its just an intermittent feeling especially when she feels frustrated with the situation. they're both in early 30s
2006-12-10 23:51:00 · update #1
Yeah, agreed with the above. Being TIRED of missing him and NOT missing him are two completely different things. Maybe you've hit a sore point with her and she's agonizing over it a little herself. If she really loved him she wouldn't even have to think about it, however sometimes the practicalities are more complicated than that. I noticed you don't mention him at all. Does he miss her? What is his reaction when she tells him she's tired of waiting. Are they mature/old enough to handle a difficult relationship like that (it takes maturity and experience to handle a long distance relationship). Maybe she's just a little insecure and she needs him to tell her how he feels.
2006-12-10 12:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might just be a way to get out of the relationship. I did that once before. I'm not proud of it but I had no feelings towards the guy I was with and I didn't want to hurt him any more than I already had. I get that he's irreplacable but why would you want a guy just coming in and out whenever he felt like it. I think if he really cared for you he would stay and make things work. Because when you love someobody you don't do things like that all the time. I think you should tell him your tired of "Breaks" and if he isn't, be done with him forever. Find somebody that is always gonna be by your side
2016-05-23 03:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it really depends on whether she's tired of missing him or if she's NOT missing him. If she's just tired of missing him, it doesn't really mean much of anything. If I had been missing my guy for 6 months I'd be pretty dam tired of missing him too. I think being tired of missing someone is a very normal feeling. On the other hand, I knew things were about over with my ex when I completely stopped missing him. (He was a truck driver and when I was alone I didn't miss him, and when I traveled back to my hometown for a friend's wedding, I didn't miss him in even the slightest bit. Needless to say, we broke up about a month later.)
2006-12-10 11:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Cheyenne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trouble with long distance relationships it you often don't know for definate how you feel until you see that person. If she does feel she wants to break-up with him, and does it over the phone, she may regret it when he comes back. It's so hard being a friend in this situation because you want to help but there's often nothing you can do except the usual drill; tissues, chocolate, wine and, most of all, just listening. It might not feel like your helping, but you always are.
2006-12-10 11:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by noisymilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
2006-12-10 11:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-10 11:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋