I had a one night stand with a friends friend,. found out i was pregnant moved out of my friends house and ended the friendship.... i know it sounds selfish but she was not planned and i don't think he should have to pay for my mistake.... should i tell him that it is his or should i just continue ignoring them all all so i don't have to answer their questions???? she is six months old
2006-12-10 11:23:40 · 7 answers · asked by Narelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him, tell him, tell him. He has a right to know and then it's up to him to make the choice about how involved he wants to be. Try and put yourself in his shoes. Your baby also needs to know who her dad is - believe me, it would be break her heart to grow up thinking that he just didn't care (no matter what u told her). You don't have to be in a relationship together to both be loving parents - you CAN just be friends but he needs to know. I would also like to add....... medical, you need to know her dads family medical history - this can be very important. The best of luck to you, I DO know what you are going through.
2006-12-10 13:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him, he may want to be a part of the child's life and if so she deserves to know her father. She is young enough now so in case he does not want to be a part of her life she will not know anything about it, but he should be given the opportunity to make that choice. You should also be given financial support for his child it is better do do this while she is still young
2006-12-10 11:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should definantly tell him, what right have you got to keep that from him, but tell him up front that you dont want him to pay. As with your friends tell them only what they nedd to know or tell them the truth , then you dont have to answer any questions.
2006-12-10 13:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by Calais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 tell him and let him b part of his babys life ur baby needs a father no matter what i used to believe they didnt either but really they do
2006-12-10 11:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shoud tell.. I mean he has a right to know
2006-12-10 11:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by crazyblonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay silent tell no one and start again.Do not ruin his life you have ruined your own...live with it
2006-12-10 11:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him! It is his baby and he needs to be in the babies life!
2006-12-10 11:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by brandibabe07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋