I'm really confused right now... okay, my friend and I had a HUGE fight a couple weeks ago, and seriously didn't say a word to each other for a few weeks. I've been friends with him for like three years, and people pretty much always grouped us "together" even though we were always in denial of it... but in all honesty i do like him a lot. We finally got over this fight just recently, and for a few days he was great, and we were talking like normal. Then he started going on to me about how he needed a girlfriend, which everyone seems to think means he likes me... we had a really deep conversation though in any case. But for the past three days, he hasn't said a word to me... he literally looks at me, and I'll smile at him, and he just looks at me and looks the other way... I like this guy a LOT, but I'm really tired of playing games with him and sitting there trying to figure out what he's trying to do... I'm getting ready to give up on him... any advice?? Thanks so much.
2006-12-10 11:22:07 · 13 answers · asked by xxEquestrianxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems like he is tired of trying to figure you out even if you dont notice. if you want to be his girlfriend, then make that move. if not, then leave him alone. he is probably upset, not with you, but with the situation. if you really care about him you would want to see him happy. so be his girl or stop breathing down his neck and make room for someone else.
2006-12-10 11:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by morequestions 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you give up on him, you should tell him what you just wrote, that you are tired of playing games and that you would like to know why is acting the way he is acting towards you. However, he might be acting that way because he is getting mixed signals from you, so first you have decide if you want to remain friends or if you would lilke to be more than friends. Are you interested in a relationship with him? I think your big fight and not talking and now this strange behavior is all because your friendship is becoming more than a friendship, and neither one of you knows if you want that or not. It is a transitional time, and you have reached a point where you will either grow closer together or go your own ways. You have to decide which way you want it to go, be honest with him, and see what happens.
2006-12-10 19:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to be honest about his feelings towards you.
And do the same yourself.
Then you'll have to decide on whether you want a friend or a valentine. And if he is mature enough to understand and respect your decision.
If he isn't, then just look for another friend. Life is full of surprises and you will surely find other interesting people.
2006-12-10 19:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by fern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seriously tell him to stop with the mind games. cause thats not cool. i would tell him you really like him and that you would like to start dating him or at least considering it ya know and then see what he says... if he acts like he does not really care there is your answer back off but make sure you let him know that thats it, you are moving on ya can still be friends but thats it. remember he is not the only guy for ya girl NEVER wait on a guy who has no interest in you ok good luck!!!!!
2006-12-10 19:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by jeannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes get over him. If he came off on you once he will again. If you see him walk the other way and don't go near him. What makes you so atracted to him is he is dangerous and you like the fact he unlike others is not drooling over you. Don't let him hurt you bad, stay away. Go look for better fish.
2006-12-10 19:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by mobil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him the time of day I am telling you been there done that find somebody else to like and he will be all gaga over you again Be nice smile but ignore the crap out of him
2006-12-10 19:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by snaggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up on him, and find out why you were fighting. You don't want to be with someone who treats you like that. Forgive him in your heart, but don't put up with abuse from anyone.
2006-12-10 19:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try so hard. Just play hard to get. if he continues not to talk to you ask him if you did something wrong or you can be really brave and ask him out.
2006-12-10 19:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by evie. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up because even though you can make more friends they cant replace your old ones, and maybe you two can have a future together as boyfriend and girlfriend. good luck. best wishes.
2006-12-10 19:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by jamey m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him straight up 'what's up with you and me?' and if he likes you in a girlfriend way then... happily ever after. but if he doesn't then it is time to give up and move on. wasting time playing games is over move forward or on!!!
2006-12-10 19:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by ms.wannitall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋