he is my age but he keeps on like accidently touching my hand and we were playing this game where we had to have partners and he made sure he was mine and his mom kinda hinted that he likes me (weird i know) um so how do i get rid of him? i have a bf and im faithful to him and only him
2006-12-10 11:20:11 · 27 answers · asked by savvy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he is a nerd then tell him that he has NO CHANCE. but if he is a really good friend then tell him to back off a little. cuz i have a friend like that and he likes me but i dont like him so when he gets near to me i tell him to stay 5 feet away from me, or i just try avoiding him as much as possible. so good luck with getting him away from u
2006-12-10 11:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by name. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him not to touch you. You owe no explaination nor apology! Most everyone has a "personal space" usually about 18 inches around you, coming into this space once or twice to show interest is normal. If you showed NO signs of interest he should have gotten the idea. So, he either "doesn't get it" or he doesn't care. It is not fair that you have to speak up to a weirdo, it may make you uncomfortable. After you tell him to stay an acceptable distance from you, you will probably feel relieved and the next time you won't be as uncomfortable. I also suggest you don't say it's because of your bf. He may think that you are interested but this is just bad timing, some people are a little dense when it comes to picking up social cues. Try to say something like: Please do not touch me or crowd me anymore. It makes me feel uncomfortable and I do not want you that close to me.
It sounds almost rude, but you must be clear and give NO mixed signals. Take care of yourself and do not let a weirdo violate you or your space.
2006-12-10 11:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by lovely-to-be-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. he likes you. just ignore him sorta. like, one word answers. be polite, but not flirtatious. avoid eye contact. let this go on for a week or so and if that doesn't help let him meet your boyfriend and the whole time that they are both hang on your boyfriend. when your boyfriend is not around talk about him in a good way. alot. the othe boy will eventually be annoyed and find someone else
2006-12-10 11:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk about your boyfriend in front of him like tell him something nice that you bf said or did and how much you really like him. he should get the hint. if not then just tell him that you do not feel the same way. good luck.
2006-12-10 11:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you have a bf already but it's really sweet of him showing that he has affection for you. If he gets masd at you or dosent talk to you then he definetly has a problem
2006-12-10 11:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by evie. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just politely let him know that you are uncomfortable with the touching, and since you have a bf and wouldn't be kewl with a chick touching him, you don't feel it appropriate for another dude to touch you...
2006-12-10 11:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW GERL thats hard um I think you shouldm just come out and tell him. And if it doesn't stop tell someone cause thats not right especially if you have a man.
2006-12-10 11:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by DJG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are very affectionate in nature. Explain to him that you are currently in a relationship and it makes you uncomfortable when he gets 'too close'.
Explain this to you mother too so she isn't pushing boys your way. Good luck.
2006-12-10 11:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,first tell him that you have a bf,and if he dosn't comply with you,then just tell him to step!And if he still dosn't get it,tell your parnets about him and they will take care of it,but please be gentle about it,because you never know what the future will hold!
2006-12-10 11:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by theravenhairedvampire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. If not he will think you like him doing that to you and he will go for it.
2006-12-10 11:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by apple87guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋