what is an orgasm?

Question

what is an orgasm, exactly. be as descriptive as you can. i wanna see if what i'm feeling is real or not. thanks, ly

Answer 1

Rapid muscle contraction (eg.the clitorus) creating a pleasureable sensation. The peak of sexual pleasure indeed.

In otherwords, the best thing in the world hehe

Answer 2

In a human female orgasm, orgasm is preceded by moistening of the vaginal walls, and an enlargement of the clitoris due to increased blood flow trapped in the clitoris's spongy tissue. Some women exhibit a sex flush, a reddening of the skin over much of the body due to increased blood flow to the skin. As a woman comes closer to having an orgasm, the clitoris moves inward under the clitoral hood, and the labia minora (inner lips) become darker. As orgasm becomes imminent, the vagina decreases in size by about 30% and also becomes congested from engorged soft tissue. The uterus then experiences muscular contractions. A woman experiences full orgasm when her uterus, vagina and pelvic muscles undergo a series of rhythmic contractions. The majority of women consider these contractions to be very pleasurable, although not all sexually active women experience this.

After the orgasm is over, the clitoris re-emerges from under the clitoral hood, and returns to its normal size in less than 10 minutes.

Unlike men, women either do not have a refractory period or have a very short one and thus can experience a second orgasm soon after the first; some women can even follow this with additional consecutive orgasms. This is known as having multiple orgasms. After the initial orgasm, subsequent climaxes may be stronger or more pleasurable as the stimulation accumulates.

Finally, if your partner isn't doin' for ya; get another partner!

Answer 3

Hi sweety. Many times women have them and aren't positive if that is what it was. That is because they vary in intensity and stuff. To me, most of them feel like spasms . Ever have a twitching muscle? Actually they are a lot like contractions. They come in waves of rythmic spasms. Mine are usually like 7 - 10 spasms one after the other and each one brings with it some euphoria or seratonin realease that feels really good and sometimes I shake all over.

You need to masterbate until you get to where you can come easily. Then once you get there, try and hold them back for a few minutes to get better ones. Get the swan or the rabbit ears vibrator from adam and eve or something. Those with clit stimulators are awesome. the others aren't too good so save your money and buy a nice one.

Or buy a shower massage with a long hose (we had to buy the hose separate and change the one it came with) so it is long enough you can lie in the tub or sit on it's edge and use waterplay on yourself. If you need an excuse for it, you like to be able to rinse your hair while bathing.

My experience was that once I learned what I needed, I was trying to figure out how to relate this to someone else. I mean when you are rubbing your clit and it gets too intense you let up, but someone else doesn't know when to let up. They don't know when to rub more to the left etc. So, you have to tell the guy to really watch your face and nipples etc to see when what he is doing is working. Tell him you might guide him with your hand at times when you know what you want and need.

There were so many times before I learned this that I was soooo close but they would change their rythm and I lost it. So, the important thing to remember is... your body will tell you what it needs and when and you have to get it what it needs when it needs it. So if your body wants your clit pinched and he isn't doing it.. do it. If your clit need to arch up and push into his hand do it.

Answer 4

an orgasm is the best feeling in the world. When you are aroused, either by having sex or masturbating, your body goes into a spin and you feel that for about 20 seconds. your vaginal area will throb and you will have a pulsing sensation as ur having the orgasm. You will see feel some wetness mucus type when ur done. Go girl is the best!

Answer 5

It is physical, perceptive ecstasy. It's like being hit by a freight train full of warm fuzzies. That's about the best way I can describe it.

Answer 6

r u serious how old r u ? it is a feeling u will never 4get or confuse with anything else and if u aint having an orgasm there is no point in having sex

Answer 7

You're too young to know.

Stay in school.

Answer 8

I can't describe it you will know if you have one keep trying and God bless you!

Answer 9

Its time well spent !

Answer 10

You'll know when you have one. There's no mistaking it.