Here's the story, He always liked me since we were 12, he would go out of his way to do things for me. We ended up dating when we were 15 and continued on and off til we were 17. He moved, but when he comes to visit he always makes a point of coming to see me. I have thought about him often lately, I have a friend who stil talks to him and gave me his new number, and told me I should call. I havent called because I am nervous. But I have thought about him and even had dreams about him.. I dont know if I should call. Should I?
Please.. no mean answers. Thanks everyone.
2006-12-10 11:13:03 · 10 answers · asked by sweet_g_grl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To answer Kitten, the reason my friend still talks to him and he and I dont is that the guy I got the number from is his best friend since we were all about 7. He was ashamed to talk to me before because he had got into trouble, but I eased those fears the first time he visited me. I did have a phone number for him, it was his mothers cell phone and i am sure she never gave him the messages(she was always a bad mother). I am nervous because I DONT know what to expect. I have always thought of him, its just since I got the number its very intense.
2006-12-10 14:18:34 · update #1
I would call him. If he goes out of his way to see you, you can return the favor. It's ok that you have been thinking of him lately. I sometimes think about my ex's, what they are doing and if they are happy.
If you left it on a good note, I would call him just to say hi. You never know...it could be a new start of something wonderful. Good luck!
2006-12-10 11:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by JAD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest you first take a moment to check your motivations for calling him before picking up the phone.
Is there a reason HE didn't give you his new phone number? Is there a reason your friend "still talks to him" and you don't? Do you feel he's slipping away from you, and talking to him would make sure he doesn't forget you? Or, because you find your feelings are deeper for him, since his move, than you realized?
Since you shared that you're nervous about calling him, it makes me think you may suspect he'd be uncomfortable hearing from you for some reason.
If you can call, without any expectations of the outcome of the phone call, then do it.
This is the time of year when most of us reach out to friends and family we haven't kept in touch with during the rest of the year.
Oh, and about the dreams---I still occasionally dream about my ex-husband, five years after the divorce. However, it doesn't follow logically that I should give the stinker a call.
2006-12-10 11:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by metaphysical_kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you're nervous about is him not wanting or needing you in his life.
I have to be honest.. . .as a guy, I've received a couple of those calls, and I wasn't always polite. But at least she understood how I felt when all was said and done.
Just call him. . .you don't have his love/friendship/whatever now, so you have nothing at all to lose.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-10 11:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by ThatGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should definitely call him, but think of something to say first before you do. Do make the phone call before it's too late, when it kinds of cool down, you get what I mean?
2006-12-10 11:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by JKST 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say call him if u dont talk to him now what do u got to lose.
he might not have ur number and he might be trying to contact u.
hay, go for it.. not to much can happen thats bad....
2006-12-10 11:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by scorpion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl yes you should talk to him dont be scared or have somebody eles to call him for you okay.
2006-12-10 11:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by zambreisha t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick up the phone right now, tell him " i dreamt about you last night so i thought i should say hi!! i miss you so much etc" he will b so happy:)
2006-12-10 11:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is yes, you really should call him.
2006-12-10 11:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely call...and dont be nervous
2006-12-10 11:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by chris f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duhhhh
or else it's just a bunch of random nubers
2006-12-10 11:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by ski racer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋