Why Did He Do That? Men R Crazy!?

Question

I was friends with this guy for 2 months, We talked everyday! So then we started a relationship. (Although we acted like we already were in one) But then he stopped calling, and I kept calling. Everytime i called we talk. But then he would never return my calls, even tho i know he saw that I called. But so one day we missed a day of talking. So I called him and asked him y he never calls anymore. He just says"You didn't call me yesterday" and this has happened twice. i admitt when i called him I was kinda mean. So then I tell him **** IT! and then he starts avoiding me. Everytime I called he'd say he's busy and he'll call me back, but he never does. I would ask him y, but he just stopped answering my calls. Why? Anyways I wnt to atleast be his friend. but I don't know if I should call n try. plus I said in voicemall that he hurt my feelings and for him to call and let me know what going on. He didnt.

Answer 1

Get over him and move on, you don't need a jacka$$ like that in your life. You deserve better. Ignore him, forget him and find someone who respects you, this guy obviously doesn't.

Good luck hon

Answer 2

The best thing you can do is just let it go and hope that due in time u can try and maybe u can b friends sumtime then. I know it may huirt but u just nhave 2 let go and pray that one day you'll find some right 4 u. But what u should have done was use that time 2 work on u and when u. He was a person that was pose to teach u 1 thing and that thing is pose 2 help u. Use it wisley.

Answer 3

Shay,
Hmmm...seems like you have caught a severe case of "that whiney girl" syndrome. Take a step back and see things from this guy's point of view. He's out doing something, in the middle of whatever it is...and he gets a call from you. Now if this happens once or twice, no big deal, but if constantly he recieves calls while he is doing something else it becomes an annoyance. Which is what you want to avoid at all costs. All may not be lost however. Instead of dewelling on him not returning your calls. Work to give him reasons to want to call you.

Answer 4

Well, I don't know what your age is, but it sounds like this relationship is lacking some maturity. He's upset when you call too much, but then he gets mad when you don't call him one day. I think you all should have definitely stuck with staying just friends.

This is all a big game. Find someone who will WANT to talk to you and won't think of it as a chore. =)

Answer 5

Time to gather the self respect and move on. Honey you deserve better. Men often lose interest when they gain the prize. A lot of guys think being an ****** is the way to keep a woman...they think women like ******* and bad boys.
Move on, please don't obsess...there really are A LOT of guys out there.

Answer 6

he's hoping you will go away and leave him alone. my ex used to do that, i'd call but we'd talk for a moment, then he'd say he would call me back. he'd never call me on his own unless he wanted something or i had called him. its best to let him go.

Answer 7

He thinks he's to good to call you, don't call him 4 a week and he'll eventually call.

Answer 8

try saying sorry to him even if he is bizy say i am sorry for yelling at u the other day or leave a message. that may help good luk!

Answer 9

he is being an *** hole he might have another gf already call him and tell him to meet you somewhere and then just sort everything out

Answer 10

Why don't you just leave the poor boy alone already?