Alright, so theres this girl I am contemplating whether I want to go out with her or not. btw I am a guy. One day I was with a group of friends and we are all talking and somehow, she mentions she is not a virgin and has had sex atleast 4 or 5 times. Apperently, I am the only one who did not know this. I am a virgin, I just started my freshman year and my gf just left me right at the point where we were getting ready to have sex for an older guy. The girl I want to go out with is a Junior. At first it bothered me but now it does not. I am just wondering other people opinions on what they would do.
2006-12-10 10:53:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the whole part about her not being a virgin bothers you because you still are than take the time to get to know her and see if you really do like her as much as you think... Do lose your virginity over dumb stuff... and because everyone is doing it, you should do it when someone really means something to you... and The girl you like should respect you... i know i would...
2006-12-10 11:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mexican Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is glue. It feels good, but for the most part its misrepresented in relationships and instead of making you happier it just makes things more complicated. Not one of my unmarried friends is both having an active sex life AND living an uncomplicated life. I have no sex and I got no worries. In fact, I'm one of the few people I know that are free and clear of a lot of problems because we chose to wait. You make the call, but I'd say its a blessing having her leave ya before you got pulled in... Cause its the leading cause of unhappiness out there right now, that the fewest people will admit to. (which is why its so effective)..
2006-12-10 19:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by guardian707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you a little too young to be thinking about sex? I say ask the junior girl out. What's the worst she can do? Say no...its better than wondering what would have happened. Live each day like it's ur last.
2006-12-10 18:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion, don't put so much thought into it. if you like her, don't let something like that get in the way of getting to know her better. don't hold it against her and don't think you can easily get into her pants. just treat a girl with some respect and you'd be amazed at her reaction. and don't be in a rush to be de-virginized--it's not a race, although, nowadays it seems like it is. you will know in your heart when it's the right time to do it.
2006-12-10 19:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by minerva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the other one but when its time to do the deed dont forget to cover it before you shovel it into the cave safe sex is the way to go
2006-12-10 18:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by slp9209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the word sex means responsibility and personally i believe that just because she had sex before you doesn't mean she is no good enough.
See the person values and the things she makes you feel. dont judge her past. because no one is perfect.
2006-12-10 19:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Denisey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would it bother you? If she was faithful in those relationships that what matters..no? Is the old double standard...a guy can but a girl is a "slut" still around?
2006-12-10 18:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by hlg567 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if she's not a virgin
2006-12-10 19:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinions don't really matter, but I will say this welcome to the real world.
2006-12-10 18:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋