I've been 'seeing' this girl for about 2 months now.. We aren't labeling ourselves as 'bf&gf' but we do everything that would classify us as bf&gf...
The problem is that she is still not over her ex-bf who broke up and never spoke to her again to this day. She told me that she just cannot do this, and told me she didn't feel comfortable with this whole 'fake bfgf' thing..
I know that she likes me.. I really do. But because she is still not over him, she can't really do anything she says..
The last couple days have been really weird.. its just the fact that she likes me, but cant date is what's bothering me.. Everytime I walk her home, she gives me a kiss and smiles.. and thats our fun for the night.
I don't know what to do..
I usually don't do this sorta thing, but a lil helpll as to wtf i should do will be helpful.
2006-12-10 10:51:50 · 8 answers · asked by Brian C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you really want to be with this girl you can hang in there until she is over her ex which lord knows how long that will take... Or you can just be friends with her and find someone that is ready for a relationship with you and will be happy to be labled your girlfriend.... that choice is up tp you but i really see no point in wasting time on something that may or may not happen... because you guys have spent alot of time together and done things and she has seen that you are a good guy and is still hung over on her ex... sounds kinda lame to me sorry but it does... I would find someone else who will be ready for a lasting loving relationship
2006-12-10 10:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i'm a girl and i was once in a position like this as a chick is really hard to let go of somone u cared for a long time but if the she should understand that their are better things out their and u can be that let her know how u truely feel about her and how u would love to help her forget him and that no matter what ur always gonna be their for her chicks dig that be as honest as u can with her and she would open her eyes and understand that you are now her future and she needs to forget the past.
i wish u the best i truely do!
2006-12-10 10:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Living It Up 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
til shes over me shes not going 2 b able 2 b with anyone and do u really want to b with her if she gets a chance 2 go bak 2 him and if shes not over him believe me shes gonna take that chance and then u wil b left alone more hurt then than if u get out now and believe me if shes not over him shes not into u when shes with u or talking to u shes really thinking of him i have been there i know what shes going thru and its not fair to u cause it wasnt fair to the guys i did it 2 so find u someone that can get into u and go on with ur life and let her stay where she is into him believe me u wil only get hurt in this situation
2006-12-10 10:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me she is not ready to comitt to you. and her ex is the reason why. i would make a clean break and tell her she needs to figure out what she really wants because you cannot compete with her ex.
until you do that she will continue to play with your emotions.... Sorry hon.. keep your chin up
2006-12-10 10:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by ~Raven~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you just need to let her find out what it is that she needs and not rush her into the relationship that you wont they may push further away from you right now you know she likes you so what next
2006-12-10 10:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this girl dont know what she is doing.it makes no sense she hide her feelings for u u should tell her how u really feel and what u want to happen between u both.if u have intentions u should tell her also.
2006-12-10 10:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by sweets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY PONDER OVER SOMEONE WHO STILL LIKES HER EX. JUST BE FRIENDS AND TELL HER THAT YOU ARE THERE FOR HER FOR SUPPORT. THERE ARE OTHER GIRLS OUT THERE THAT WOULD LIKE YOU FOR YOU. GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-10 10:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could do better. I think she's just using u 2 get over her ex. that's just bogus. wat a b****
2006-12-10 10:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋