was i horrible 4 doing this?cuz thats how i feel This boy I like likes me back.He asked if i had a cellphone,i nodded my head,then he asked if i had a bf and if i wanted one and i shrugged and shook my head. He asked for my number.I just looked away and didn't respond~ he was like yes or no?what did i do.I looked into his eyes and then looked away .Such an idiot i am.So when the bell rang he just left .I want to go out with him realllllyyyy badly but hes so loud,popular and smart too,way smart.I'm so shy quiet,unpopular and loserish. What will other people say about us?I think a whole bunch of girls in the school like him too. What do i do?he knows that im really really shy and quiet.should i just try talking to him or what? should i just be like hi(his name) on monday when i c him in class?I'm scared to go to school and see him scared out of my mind.I know that I'm just going to look at him and say nothing :( i messed up BAD.was this mean?is he upset or sad now?
2006-12-10 10:39:18 · 6 answers · asked by fran fran f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see you guessed it right, you messed it. But its not the end of the world, cheer-up. You sound like a shy girl and a girl suffering from fear of rejection.
The signal you send him is that you have no interest more than friendship. So next time when you meet him write your number on a little paper and with a cute smile put that paper in his pocket(shirt pocket).
Now coming to the part about you being unpopular, loserish. I think you should just wash your face with cold cold water, hey girl if being popular would have had edge in relationship, then he might have had all the popular girls with him.
When a boy close to you ask you if you have a boyfriend than he means more than that.
He is really interested, and i think you are a smart girl, believe in yourself, look in the mirror and smile.
2006-12-10 10:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness!!!!
You are not an idiot.
If you like him..you should go out with him or at least talk to him..the door was wide open and you stumbled. At least you already know that he likes you.
Who cares what other people say..are you in this to please other people?
So what if other girls like him..so do you and he tried to get at you-go for it! He knows you are shy..so I am sure he understands that you just freaked a little. You can't be too loserish if he was trying to get your phone number. Yes, on Monday,you should talk to him, write your number down and hand it to him.
Don't be scared to see him, just walk right up to him and talk to him...he might be a little unsure about what happened, but the only way your going to fix it is by talking to him. Go for it...you are only young once!
2006-12-10 18:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol you didnt sound too shy to me. you sounded more like a *****. since you're shy, write him a note. apologize, say you were nervous and leave ur number in it for him to call you if he feels like it. give it to him in your next class and just kind of smile when you hand it to him or put it on his desk.
DO NOT say anything in the note you wouldn't mind anyone else reading. if he really is as "popular" as you say, he may decide to be an *** and be mean and show the note to his friends. just be blunt and straight forward in the note and i hope it works out for you!
2006-12-10 18:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by casadienickole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u did the right thing.doing this will tell u if he really like u back cause if he does he will come and ask u those questions again. what u did wasn't mean at all just think of it as a test.
2006-12-10 18:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by sweets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably upset. But if you really like him u should talk to him and tell him what happened. And who cares what anyone else thinks all that maters is u and him
2006-12-10 18:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by Lia*808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like, oh my gosh, it's just so hard to tell a guy you like him when, like you know you are still acting as if you are in the first grade. You like, you know, snooze you lose!
2006-12-10 18:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋