my 12 year old little girl is having a child?

Question

she dosnt think i know shes pregnate but i do and she thinks im going to kick her out she really wants this child so ive heared from her friends parents

Answer 1

Take her to the drs !! and find the male who did this and put him in jail !! I am so sorry :( How far along is she?

Answer 2

The best you can do is talk to her.
Everybody knows that a girl can get pregnant if she has already had a first period, but I have read that sometimes, at that age, even if she hasn't have her period yet, she could be close to have it, and for instance, being ovulating and able to become pregnant.
As a parent, you should not only try to give her love now more than ever, but also being her friend, so talk to her as soon as possible, not in an accusative or painful way, but supporting her, that is what she needs and wants for sure.
Good luck!

Answer 3

I was fairly young myself when i had my first child. No not 12, but young none the less. Reading some of the other answers I saw many that put the blame on you. I don't know the circumstances, but in my own experience, you can't be with your kids all the time, and even with the sex talk kids get it in their head that no it won't happen to them (or some girls think it's and ideal way to get the guy to stay with them and love them. Thats experience talking in that matter.) TV, radio, magazines all make it so glamerous to be having sex.

I would recomend sitting down and talking to her. Let her know you are there for her, and that you love her and will no matter what. Definately get her on prenatal vitamins (since she is young I would have her take two daily instead of the recomended one), also if she is not doing so lots of milk and protien. Cutting out caffien would be best because it can cause nerve damage to the baby.

Deffinately get her in to see a doctor. Complications can be dealt with more easily if she sees the doctor regularly and things are found early. I wouldn't recommend forcing her to get and abortion, because it could cause more harm than good. Not physically necisarily, but emotionally and phsycologically. If nothing else there are many people who can't have kids who would love to adopt one. (I know several women who are unable to become pregnant and/or carry a baby to term).

The most important advice I can give, though; is to just be there for her. Listen to her. Be her rock, her shoulder to cry on. Support her as best as you can. Give your worries and cares to the Lord, he will shoulder your burden for you and help you through these tough times. I was lucky enough to have loving parents who stood by me no matter what. I was able to finish high school. I had to grow up quickly, but i wouldn't trade my son for the world. Sorry I was so long winded. I only hope that I helped in some way. If you ever need someone to talk to you can instant message me or email me. My sn is chictrinity. Have a blessed day.

Answer 4

I know that this sounds mean, but you do have a say in what happens to her and her unborn child with her being so young. I think that you should have her give it up if she is not too far along. I do not believe in abortion, but in this case, it could do more harm then good to your little girl. She is not done growing yet. If she does have it, I would suggest that you have her give it up for adoption. She is way to young to start a family. She needs to be a child herself, not have one. I would get her into counseling, and everything else that I could that professionals would suggest to get her help. This goes beyond the birds and the bees, she is in deep and you have allot to deal with. I am so sorry.

Answer 5

You are not the first person in this kind of situation. Just two weeks ago, I happened to be helping someone who was 15 and just found out she was pregnant. In her case, she told her mom about it, and her mom was upset at first, but really supportive and now they are planning a nursery for the new baby!
There are so many people and resources for you and your daughter. Your local Pregnancy Resource Center can help--they offter free pregnancy tests with 99.9% accuracy and free counseling (And, regardless of whether or not your daughter is pregnant, they can and will still offer her counseling on abstinence!). If your daughter is pregnant, they also offer free medical appointments where you can hear the baby's heartbeat and make sure the pregnancy is healthy. There are people there to talk to parents, too--maybe you would like to stop by by yourself before taking your daughter. You could talk to someone there about the situation. There will someone able to walk you through it all. And don't forget to pray first for the grace to deal with whatever God has decided to do in your lives!!! That ALWAYS helps:)
Here is the website to help you locate your local Pregnancy Resource Center: http://www.pregnancycenters.org/...... They can help you with local support and resources as well for young moms. They also have information on adoption and abortion if you are interested in either (but they do not refer for abortion--they just have information on different methods...etc). Don't worry! You and your daughter can do this and you won't be doing it alone!
Please repost in a few weeks and let us all know how you and your family are doing. I will keep you, your daughter and her baby (if she is indeed pregnant?) in my prayers! God bless you all!

Answer 6

I don't care how much she wants a baby, she is too young to properly take care of a baby. She is just a child herself. They have homes where you can send her and it wouldn't cost you anything. At these homes they would counsel your daughter and convince her of the right thing to do. They would also counsel her on how to be less promiscuous and responsible so this wouldn't happen again. They would find the baby a good home and everyone's lives would change for the better. Go to Social Services and different church counseling centers to get more information about such places. Good luck!

Answer 7

This must be so hard for you. Take her to the doctor and find out how far along she is. When you talk to her, don't get mad at her. Tell her that you know that she's pregnant and ask her why she didn't tell you earlier. Insist that you won't kick her out. BE NICE. She's under enough stress and in enough pain already without you getting mad at her. This will cause her more stress and pain. give her a hug for me. find the guy that did this, and if he is older than 18, you can get him arrested. hope this helps :). good luck.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

The best thing you can do is tell her you know and support her no matter what your feelings are. Dont make her get an abortion it will cause more stress on the both of you. Just find the kid a good sitter why your daughter goes to school. Accidents happen and some times you cant control it.

People are complaining she should be on birth control shes 12 her mother prolly didnt expect she was doing that stuff.

So support her 100% cause not many other people will.

Answer 10

Wow...well obviously a 12-year-old should NOT have a child. And you can't kick her out, or you will probably go to jail unless you sent her to a relatives house. You definitely need to talk to her IMMEDIATELY. Find out everything and go to the Doctor to find out for sure. Good luck to you and her, take care.

Answer 11

your daughter is like a child having a child who is the scum that did this on this child sit down and talk to this child cause really that is all she is God help her and the person that did this to her should be jailed but then maybe they are only kids themselves you need to talk to your daughter and take her to the doctors this child must be in nerves and she what the doctors has to say
all I can say is Good luck
Roberta