The doctors told me I'm due near December 23,24 or 25 my husband to be doesn't know I'm due because he is in the army. I told him I'm pregnant but i did not tell him I'm 9 months though. I need advice and an opinion. Should I call him?
2006-12-10 10:34:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Your not serious? You told your hubby you were preggo but neglected to mention that you are 9 months along? Why is the baby not his?
2006-12-10 10:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by mindy s 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes. you should definitely tell him, but be prepared to answer some serious questions. Like why didn't you tell me when you found out you were pregnant? Is this even my child? Don't be surprised if you get a negative reaction from him, because he will probably feel as though you have been hiding something from him. If you have no doubt in your mind that this is your husbands child than allow him to go through his angry stage (and believe me, there will be one). And if need be support him in his paternity questions (i can assure you that there will be some). Do not get deffensive, this will only support his doubt and anger. More so than this, is the main question...why did you wait until two weeks before you were due to tell your husband... i think you knew before the doctor tod you that you were nine months pregnant...so there is obviously something behind your deception. Decide how hard you are willing to fight for your marriage and your husband before you have this conversation with him, because you are about to face some difficult times. Moving foward be honest.
2006-12-10 10:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by milah mae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I assume the baby is your husbands. Yes you should tell him you are due any day now. You should have told your husband that you were pregnant when you found out instead of waiting so long. By not telling him you were pregnant when you found out could raise some trust issues. He will wonder why you didn't tell him sooner, so you better have a good answer for him. Good luck
2006-12-10 10:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. Doesn't he have a right to know? I'm sure that, since he is in the army, he feels a little guilty about his family, and it will only make him feel more guilty if he comes home without knowing when the baby was born.
2006-12-10 10:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by Arielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? And what do you mean that you haven't told the father because he is in the Army? That's ridiculous! I think this is a made up question. If not, explain yourself!!
2006-12-10 10:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by One Race The Human Race 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion yes, you should tell him. He has every right to know when his child is coming into this world. It might actually make his day a little brighter. If not then it's his loss
2006-12-10 10:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by cmvnow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should tell him and let him know your going to have it any day near the end of this month.he might be able to come home and be there when the baby comes. my dad come home to wach my brother he is in the navy. but he could not come to see me so i dont know really about that .good luck girl.
2006-12-10 10:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by sk8erhjk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,
he's going to find out sooner or later, and if he already knows that your pregnant then I really don'tsee the harm
2006-12-10 10:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by galyaxz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell that man he is about to become a father. He deserves to know. That will bring him so much joy. I can't believe you went this far along without telling him. If you can call him then do so.
2006-12-10 10:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by SassyLeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the baby is half his and dont you think he needs good news in life while he is defending our country? Let him know.
2006-12-10 10:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by undercovernudist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋