My boyfriend gets free trips for 2 to places around the US for his work. He invited me but, I cannot go. Instead, he is taking his friend thats a girl and they will share a room,and possibly a bed. He said he is only taking her because a friend went on his phone and invited her and she thought it was him. When he told her it wasn't him, she didn't believe him. The girl has a boyfriend also, but don't you think she wouldn't go if she knew that my guy has me?
2006-12-10 10:08:38 · 38 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My god, that is complete ********, especially with that "a friend went on the phone" crap. He's playin' you. He must think you are as dumb as he is.
I don't believe that from what you said he has cheated on you YET- but I hate people who pretend that stuff just happens ON them- oh, dear me, a girl ended up in the same bed as me. Give me a break.
2006-12-10 10:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Omg! You dont take a friend thats an opposite sex on a trip when your in a relationship. Most of all there is no excuse why he cant tell her that his friend did it and it wasnt him.Who in their right mind wouldnt believe someone that it wasnt you who asked.(ESPECIALLY a good friend that you would take on a trip and share a bed with) Do not let this happen. You call her and tell her that she wont be going. What is she going to think that your joking too???
2006-12-10 10:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised you even have to ask.
If someone did that to me I'd dump their butt so fast your head would spin.
He is pulling one over on you. Even if it was true that his friend did that, he should straighten the situation out by telling her he did NOT set it up and he is NOT interested in having her along at all. Your boyfriend is either a total moron or he is playing you for a sucker. Either way is this the kind of guy you want to be with?
You need to put your foot down and tell him if she goes you wont be there when he gets back. Personally I would dump him for even trying to convince you this is perfectly ok because if thats how he thinks this will happen again.
2006-12-10 10:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a bunch of bull ca-ca to me, and yeah, *I* wouldn't care for it one bit. You be upset if you want to, it's not up to others to tell you how to feel.
If he really didn't want her to go, he would get out of it...and I have a tough time believing her boyfriend is kewl with it either, or why she'd want to go if she has a bf.
A trip might be kewl, but why share it with a dude who's involved with someone, when you are also involved with someone? Somethings wrong when 2 people like that decide to take a vacation together, instead of waiting for the time when their own partner can go with them.
2006-12-10 10:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's crazy. you have every right to be upset. why don't u ask to meet her so she knows about u. when u do meet her listen to how HE introduces you...if he says this is my friend or my girlfriend and then decide if HE'Sgonna have a girl waiting when he gets home.
I had kinda the same thing
my fiance has a daughter and she has had several surgeries in Seattle. his baby's mamma who he say he cant stand share a room and bed and I'm suppose to be OK with it.
2006-12-10 10:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have every right to be upset. He is dis respecting you by taking another female. Since she has a boyfriend, maybe you can suggest he gives her both tickets. I would tell him that if he respected you at all he should either not go, since it sounds like he will have other opportunities to go other places at other times, or he take a male companion. Thats my opinion! :)
2006-12-10 10:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by maenerd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is okay to be upset. But you should definitely talk to your boyfriend about it. I mean will he be okay if you did the same thing with a guy? I don't think so... Now... doesn't the girl knows he has a girlfriend (you)? And is his boyfriend okay with her going away with him? I don't know... I wouldn't be happy at all.
2006-12-10 10:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no no girl is sharing the same bed as my boyfriend. I would not tolerate it. You have the right to be upset. And why is her boyfriend allowing her to go. Sounds funny to me. Talk to him more about it.
2006-12-10 10:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't control emotions so if you feel upset than let yourself feel like it. It's better than bottling it up in yourself. You will have to trust him it sounds a bit complicated and from your last line I am assuming she doesn't know that he is dating you? I mean if she is a friend shouldn't she know that. What you need to remember you can't know what he's doing all the time and if he cheats on you that he's a cretin a you will at least know it.
2006-12-10 10:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by selene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think your boy friend could be up to something because that
does not sound right to do that to you abot inviting another girl
because he already has you for a girl friend . Yeah sure I bet there really really close friends not really.
2006-12-10 10:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋