What do you do if you like someone and your pretty sure they like you to but they have a girlfriend?

Answer 1

You find someone else to occupy your thoughts, She has a boyfriend. God bless****

Answer 2

How about this: Don't do anything you woudn't want done to you if you were the girlfriend. How would you want a girl to behave to your man if they knew that he already had a girlfriend?

So - don't compromise your values.. A guy that would hook up with you in any way (and already has a girl) is not someone you want.

Relationships don't last if they are shaky - so if you just keep a generally friendly connection (no sneaky flirting - see comments above), sooner or later a relationship will come to its natural end and then he will be available. Oh - by then you may have found someone you like more - but at least your principles and values will be intact.

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Answer 3

I am not saying this in a bad way, but try to get over him. B'cos if u 2 eventually get together, u will not enjoy urself in the right manner, cos of his old girlfriend. Just be ordinary friends with him and always control urself around him. U will find out that the feelin will ease off gradually and u will see through him.

Answer 4

Now you know that he has a girlfriend, so that should be hands off. I feel if he really liked you he would leave his girlfriend, and since that is not the case, then just be his friend, and find you a friend of your own. Have a great holiday!

Answer 5

Don't go there! If they split up then give it a month and test the waters but if he's a good guy he won't go near you if he has a girlfriend. If he does then he's a cad so you don't want to put yourself in that situation. Have respect for yourself and your sistas!! :) Also, if he does like you and is thinking about splitting up with his girlfriend for you it will make him so much more hot for you if you're unattainable!

Answer 6

leave it! forget him. if he likes you so much then why isnt he with you and not his girlfriend? sorry to be insensitive but if i was his girlfriend i know what id do to somone else making claims on my man and do you really want that kind of trouble for yourself? how well do you know his girlfriend? if you tell him you like him someone is going to get hurt and it could be you, if he tells you he is not interested and you read him all wrong. it could be him, if he has to choose between the two of you. worst of all it could be his girlfriend that gets hurt, have you thought much about her feelings? im sure you dont think much of her because you want her man but she is with him now so does what you think really matter?

Answer 7

Well if you go after her and her boyfriend finds out then this will only cause you problems, so I'd wait and see what happens cause if she's acting like she likes you now then chances are she's not satisfied with the boyfriend she's with anyways. So being this, she probably won't stay with him much longer anyways.

Answer 8

You find someone else. How would you feel if you were in a relationship and someone was trying to start something with your boyfriend? You'd think that girl was a skanky 3itch. I know I would. Don't be the skanky 3itch.

Answer 9

It's an ethical issue that only you can decide. If you choose to persue, be ready for a lot of trouble.

Answer 10

can't help you there. i'm sort of in the same situation. we just have to live with it, and move on, and don't make too big of a deal over it, even if it is a big deal. cause no one else sees it as a big deal but you, and they will think your exxagerating, and just. don't do anything.