so my boyfriend of two years has been texting his old girlfriends for some ungodly reason. i looked thru his phone (i know not good) and there were some pretty sexual texts in there. then every day when he comes home from work, he gives me a kiss and a hug and tell me he loves me very much. and always talks about marriage and kids and all that stuff. what the heck do i do??
2006-12-10 09:56:24 · 6 answers · asked by hotvballchick07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is cheating on you. Men say one thing and often do another. You should know that by now. What is the matter with you. Pay attention to what he DOES, not what he SAYS.
He keeps up with his ex because you're not giving him enough sex. Whenever you say no, he goes to his ex. He will get sex either way. You should deal with the reality of the situation, or leave. Frankly, I think you're wasting your time with this guy.
2006-12-10 21:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him and put up with his emotional abuse ! How does it feel to know your guy has been doing his ex and brings home the same bacon to you to "eat" ? Time for a reality check and tell him to quit B.S. ing you and leave. He loves his ex ... not you ! You are there to cook meals, wash his clothes and keep "doing" another load for him. He is keeping you on a string but be prepared to be dumped when he makes up his mind that YOU are not for HIM anymore !!!
2006-12-10 10:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the club first of all thats not bad that you were curious and checked things out for yourself second maybe you could investigate a lil more or if your not into that then ask him and tell him you want the truth and that you dont like him talking with his exs and you dont like the sexual texts tell him if he wants someone else to go for it but not to lie to you and lead you on
good luck
2006-12-10 10:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust is all that can make any relationship work, also respect towards your partner. If, this does bug you, need to tell the boy friend,this. Bring out all the info that you already know. Tell him what you have read. If, he defends her and all, you will get your answer....good luck to you.
2006-12-10 10:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dimples 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you think you love him very much,try to get back his love as before.and give him as much as you can untill h forget his ex-girlfriend..ok
2006-12-10 10:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by Fadzlee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they are having sexual convo's then he is probably cheating_
2006-12-10 09:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋